leave such comments to people who have any clue at all what they're actually saying.
This standard is really going to cut down on a lot of talking altogether.
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leave such comments to people who have any clue at all what they're actually saying.
This standard is really going to cut down on a lot of talking altogether.
I had no idea that Izzard had gender issues.
Well, I don't *know* him (obviously), but now that I know more about gender dysphoria, and from the way he explains it in Dress to Kill, I'd say it's a bit more than just liking to wear women's clothes.
Granted, that's total extrapolation on my part, but that's the sense I get.
Actually, I think I have an issue of BUST lying around somewhere with an interview with him -- I should see if I can find it.
This standard is really going to cut down on a lot of talking altogether.
You say that like it's a bad thing.
leave such comments to people who have any clue at all what they're actually saying.
This standard is really going to cut down on a lot of talking altogether.
Yeah, well, smarmy dudes shouldn't be talking anyway.
Technically it's not New Year's Day, but...I feel like I ought to be doing something productive and new year esque and all that today (since I had off work). Instead, I slept in late, and have been catching up on LJ and suchlike, for several hours. YOU PEOPLE do not help--550 messages? Harumph.
My NYE was OK, my New Year's Day was better (if you discount the first couple hours of it, when I was...ahem...worshipping a porcelain god).
I just found these Eddie Izzard comments:
His latest assessment of his 'gift', is that 'I'm all boy, plus extra girl - not even half and half. I've worked out: I'm all boy, mentally, plus girl-stuff.'
and
'I'd like to be able to wake up and think, "What clothes shall I wear?" but I've actually compartmentalised it.' So does he feel divided in two? 'Some women don't like makeup and great dresses and some women do, and some men do, and I'm one.'
Which has been my general understanding. The article also says things like
I have no doubt that his need for women's clothing and eye shadow is deeply felt, 'definitely internal,' as he says.
and
But his transvestism can't be simply about clothes, because that seems too superficial, scarcely worth the stress of coming out, of being pointed at and talked about on the New York subway, or of getting into fights.
Those are the interviewer's opinions, not his, so who knows? I didn't research very deeply -- this was only the second interview I looked at.
wrt Izzard and gender issues - I thought he just liked to wear women's clothes too. Which is, in some ways, not a gender-confusing thing, inasmuchas lots of women like to wear trousers, and in Egypt most men wear robes, and all that stuff. But it's a bit more complicated, because Izzard likes to wear women's trousers/jackets/etc specifically, doesn't he? So it's not simply aesthetic. Plus, in one of the DVDs of one of the tours (er, I forget which) he has false breasts, and, bless him, he talks about the whole wanting-to-have-breasts thing as part of the act. Which left me thinking "...huh..." on the whole gender identification thing.
...Nope, no conclusions here. Just "gosh, isn't life/sex/self complex" type of thoughts.
In this Salon interview: [link] , Izzard says:
How do you explain the allure of dressing up in women's clothes?
It's not an allure, it's just a sexuality. It's the only way I can express the feminine side of myself as a member of the transgender community. If you have an outwardly biological bloke's body, then that's the only way you can move toward where you feel more comfortable. I mean, women can already do it -- they can be tomboys and that's no problem.
That reads to me as some degree of gender dysphoria.
Though it doesn't really matter, does it? I was just trying to offer a different perspective on guys who call themselves lesbians in women's bodies -- they're not all being smarmy jackholes.
If he wants tits, he can have mine. I'm tired of them. Hanging around, mooching off me, doing nothing productive, getting in the way. My husband, however, considers them decorative, and he should have some say in how his environment looks.
meara--you crossdress. In your experience, is it something that can be done without any gender dysphoria? And that's not Izzard-related, just general.
The person I know who most determinedly crossdressed recently started the medical transgender procedure.
I've always thought one of the perks to being a chick is that I could wear men's clothes without raising too much of an eyebrow. However, it's been years since I looked male with any consistency--and when I did, it wasn't on purpose.
I'm not sure why I like men's clothes--and since I'm too lazy to shop with too much of a purpose, it's not like I go to the trouble of dressing up like a guy, since that'd be work. Just sometimes it's all men's clothes.
Prosthetics? No interest there.
eta:
I mean, women can already do it -- they can be tomboys and that's no problem.
See, that's the thing. I don't think tomboying is gender dysphoria--it's just a rejection of convention. I've never wanted to be a guy.