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Spike's Bitches 26: Damn right I'm impure!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Oct 03, 2005 7:59:59 am PDT #5977 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

This seems like insane troll logic to me.

We are talking the school board here. Teachers hands are somewhat tied.

I just had another flash of sympathy for Laura, having to stand up to a Brendon-Jr.-sized boy in a destructive rage. That could be a little scary!

Not at all. Then again, I know lots of people in the well over 6' range. I don't intimidate easily. It is one of the big reasons I think it's important to teach him to find other ways than the physical to solve problems.


Cashmere - Oct 03, 2005 8:07:52 am PDT #5978 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Mallory started wearing 6-9m size clothes

I have some stuff that I want to send to Mal. I've realized I have FAR FAR too many baby clothes packed in my closets.


Ginger - Oct 03, 2005 8:09:56 am PDT #5979 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

There are no grades for homework? Why would you ever do schoolwork for no grades in elementary school? Because it's so clear to you when you're 10 that it's important to learn the material? If the only consequences of not doing homework was the use of a not-painful stick, even I, the ultimate nerd child, might have thought about skipping it. I think the trolls are winning.


Calli - Oct 03, 2005 8:11:12 am PDT #5980 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

so I just got her as an example via my mother's "Why aren't you more like your sister?" Which included "Why are you such a nerd? Why don't you have boyfriends and go to parties?"

Ah. Most of my Mom and sisters' fights were about clothes to wear out on dates and at parties, and the timing and extent of the dates themselves. I think Mom found my nerd-dom rather restful.


Laura - Oct 03, 2005 8:17:22 am PDT #5981 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

There are no grades for homework?

My best guess is that some Boca Raton parents group sued the school board when little Johnny didn't get an A.


Topic!Cindy - Oct 03, 2005 8:31:38 am PDT #5982 of 10001
What is even happening?

My kids are graded for homework. I can't understand it not counting toward some (even a small) percentage of their overall grade.

It is a generalization, Cindy, but I think it's a generally good one. I know my sister could deal with her son better than with her daughter, and her husband could deal with the daughter better. There's variance within the genders, too, though - like Calli, my sister and I had completely different reactions to our mother (except I was the one with the screaming fights).
Yeah, there's variance even in my household, which was the model for my gross generalization. Ben and I are powerfully alike--IN SOME WAYS. Where those ways are concerned, Scott actually does better with Ben, probably because he (Scott) understands me so well. But when it's a power struggle sort of issue, Scott generally gets through to Julia better, and I generally get through to Ben, better. Another variance is that I generally understand Chris better. Chris is powerfully like Scott IN SOME WAYS, and powerfully like (parts of me, some of which Ben doesn't seem to share) IN SOME WAYS.

Basically, parenting is a tremendous crap shoot.


Laura - Oct 03, 2005 8:32:26 am PDT #5983 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Second best guess is that stopping grading homework raises the school's overall scores and makes the schools (and Jeb) look good. Shortsighted R Us.


vw bug - Oct 03, 2005 8:39:38 am PDT #5984 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I made it through both of my classes, got lunch and am now at work with a BIG task. Hopefully I can focus enough to get it done.

edit: UGH. I have no idea what I'm doing. What have I gotten myself into?


beth b - Oct 03, 2005 8:46:00 am PDT #5985 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm not pleased with the destruction part, but he will have to fix or replace what broke. I don't really think that I can tame 13 yo hormones instantly to prevent screaming and tossing chairs, but I hope that he will learn quickly that for his actions there are consequences.

can't stop them mid-rage that's for sure.

So if dentention - which from what I remember as a kid was boreing - sitting in a room either writting lines, doing homework or stareing at a wall - is the stick, where is the carrot? While I can't pretend to understand that homework doesn't count- I wonder if teachers could count it as extra points to add to a grade...doing 100% of you homework will add x to your test score ,90% x-1 , and 80% x-2.

that might have motived me, an a/b/c student - even more than homework counting as a general % of a grade.


Laura - Oct 03, 2005 8:55:32 am PDT #5986 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sure individual teachers have incentives, as do parents. It does count at the middle school level. When I have had conferences on the subject in the past it boils down to the teachers telling me I have to make the kid do his work. Not real helpful.