P-C, sounds like things went fairly well.

"You don't have to understand, I've got it taken care of,"

Just to repeat -- an excellent statement.

And hey, meeting girls is never a bad thing, just as long as you're still making your own decisions at the end of the day.

Seconding this, too. Nothing wrong per se with your parents introducing you to women. As long as you remember that the final decision is yours, based on criteria that you set.

she mentioned checking out some of the pharmaceutical companies in North Carolina while we were there.

Mixed response to this one. Good -- recognizing that you can't take a long break from the job search. Bad -- feels like the sort of compromise that seemed so disturbing yesterday.

And then she launched into a whole thing about wearing nice clothes because people judge you on your ratty clothes

Er, um, true but you should already know how to dress for a job interview.

Hi Bitches!

P-C, I'm glad to read things are better between parents and you today. I'm pushing for the totally deserved Great Job and Great Girl in the near future. My inclinations say Gujarati or otherwise for the chicky, but if you find somebody your parents will be satisfied with who you also adore, even best.

ION, I'm in a really good mood considering I have to take a stupid final and write a bunch of lesson plans (a task I still find terrifying) today.

Bravo, Sunil. Just... bravo. Way to take charge. Keep it up. Seriously.

Bad -- feels like the sort of compromise that seemed so disturbing yesterday.

I don't think she means, "Check them out because we want you to move to North Carolina." We have relatives over there too, who had offered to put me up if I wanted to move there and look for a job. It was just a suggestion, nothing forceful about it.

Er, um, true but you should already know how to dress for a job interview.

No, she didn't mean for a job interview, she meant when I go outside. Also, I should learn how to shave properly, because I should want girls to like me.

See, now that's getting back into normal mom territory.

Oh. My. God.

My boss keeps disappearing. She'll say, "Oh, I have to run to the potty. I'll be back in five minutes." Then she'll come back 30 minutes later. And just now she came back after being gone for over an hour and a half when she said she'd be gone for 20 minutes. She *just* disappeared again. Geesh!

Maybe she has a GI upset, vw.

I hope you don't need her for anything time sensitive today, whatever her motivation.

Also, I should learn how to shave properly, because I should want girls to like me.

According to Kyan, not very many straight guys know how to do this. The key is product (shaving cream or gel AND a moisturizer afterwards) and shaving WITH the grain.

Hmm. I'm not sure what the grain of my whiskers is. I do use both shaving gel and a post-shave moisturizer.

According to Kyan, not very many straight guys know how to do this. The key is product (shaving cream or gel AND a moisturizer afterwards) and shaving WITH the grain.

First I shave with the grain, then I shave against the grain. That results in a very close shave.

I don't do the moisturizer afterwards, though.