If I were going to read something unpleasant into the episode, I think that might be it - if I were looking for things - that there's some indication that women who are powerful outside the bedroom particularly enjoy the switch of feeling (though not being) powerless inside it.
This bugged me a bit, but from a different angle - I didn't find the emphasis was on how powerful these women were, but how emotionally lacking.
yes, as would cuffing her
That's the point I've been arguing (badly). I just wonder if the difference for some people is that putting her in restraints didn't physically harm her.
Okay, I know everyone's having an intelligent conversation and all, but really, I can't let this go.
Steph!
Colin Firth
Clive Owen
Colin
Clive
If your date likes, say, kissing and then starts kissing you without asking, or goes for your buttons or under the skirt -- same degree of bad?
I think there are degrees when it comes to unwanted advances. Someone leaning for a kiss probably gets them a hand up or a step back and a, "whoa there, buckaroo." The more agressive the unwanted advance, the more agressive the response is going to be.
Okay, Colin Firth seems like a nice chap, but is very nondescript to me. I think I've been confusing Clive Owen with Colin Farrell -- is he the one with the eyebrows of doom? (Other than Peter Gallhager, I mean?)
What if instead of cuffing her, he'd smacked her in the face? Would that count as assault?
yes, as would cuffing her
But kissing her wouldn't have been considered assault? (Again, that's not meant to be snotty; I don't know what legally defines "assault." If someone kisses me and I don't want him to, is that assault?)
that there's some indication that women who are powerful outside the bedroom particularly enjoy the switch of feeling (though not being) powerless inside it.
That didn't bother me, because that's been said about powerful men all the time.
But kissing her wouldn't have been considered assault? (Again, that's not meant to be snotty; I don't know what legally defines "assault." If someone kisses me and I don't want him to, is that assault?)
depends, and yes, it can be.
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I think I've been confusing Clive Owen with Colin Farrell -- is he the one with the eyebrows of doom?
Yes. And not nearly as cute as either of the other two, although Jessica may hurt me.
Teppy, Teppy, Teppy--you need to watch movies with these guys in them. Not only will you then be able to tell them apart, but they have made some terrific films which I think youd really like, It's a no lose situation.
Clive:
Gosford Park, Croupier, Closer
Colin:
Pride & Prejudice, Bridget Jone's Diary, Fever Pitch, Girl with Pearl Earring