Catching up late, but I know that, for me, the timing becomes a big issue (in large part, though not entirely, due to where the characters are at different times). I agree that, in S7, B/X would have been very wrong, but at the top of S4, I think I could have gone for it. With neither of them fitting in their new worlds, and their previous SOs out of the picture (to a lesser, but still present extent, including Willow), I could see it being kinda messy and working really well, story-wise.
Buffy 4: Grr. Arrgh.
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I don't have a problem with the friends become lovers storyline, in theory, mostly because all of my own (few) relationships have been with women I was friends with first and continued to be friends with afterwards. However, it does need to be written well and not come out of nowhere.
I do agree that friends of different genders that are strictly platonic are fairly rare in fiction and they should be represented more often.
So B/X wouldn't have bothered me, though I would have rather seen Xander/Willow. But I realize that would have opened up a whole other can of worms in light of the dead lesbian cliche brouhaha.
They were so sweet in s3. Aww.
I also would have enjoyed Xander being the gay one. Apparently Joss considered it.
They were so sweet in s3. Aww.
They really were. And as much as I like Oz, I was disappointed that Willow chose to go back to him after her and Xander's little "affair" was revealed. On the other hand, I can see how the rebuilding the trust aspect of her and Oz's relationship and the "cheating is bad" message were probably better choices narratively.
I also would have enjoyed Xander being the gay one
Amen
I used to think so as well, but after seeing how they handled Andrew it's probably for the best that they went with Willow.
You don't think Xander has more in common with Willow than with Andrew?
I hadn't considered it til just now, but it may well be that Willow and Andrew have more in common than either has with Xander.
I just don't think they handled Andrew and his crushes very well (i.e., in a way that didn't make me want to flee the room) and suspect that they would have had to dance around the issue so much that Xander would have ended up even more marginalized than he did.
I figured that Andrew was played for straight up comic relief for a side of pathos -- and that none of the main characters would be treated similarly.