Buffy would pick Tara over her mom? Or over a life with Angel? Or, if she's not going to use it on herself, over a long and happy life for Dawn? I'm not sure I believe Our Girl is such a martyr.

But it would have been sweet, in a sickly sort of way.

And SURELY Buffy of all people would leave anyone she had reason to believe was in heaven well enough alone.....

The Want take have attitude springs to my mind.

I dunno -- without the flair it just seemed like Dawn-level petulance.

It may have been from a convention report.

Yes I think it was. Maybe on AICN?

I'm wondering if someone linked it here or in Spoilers. It was really recent and I just don't go anywhere else (at least not regularly) these days. I never go to TWoP's forums.

More Compulsive Fun With Spreadsheets...

Okay, I added # of episodes. God bless the internet; the only number I really guessed at was Giles, since I couldn't quickly find how many season 7 episodes he did.

If you sort the dead by # of eps, it's interesting. To me. It's fairly proportional for the minor characters; more men than women at each level, but distributed pretty damn evenly until you get to characters with more than 30 episodes. And then it goes Lilah, Tara, Joyce, Fred, Anya, Cordy. Above them there's only Spike, Wesley, and Buffy.

So, to be balanced, there should be a bunch of dead men who are in the range of 35 (Lilah) to 89 (Cordy) episodes.

These are the options: Riley (31 eps), Lorne (76) and Gunn (91). There just aren't a lot of male characters in that range.

I couldn't find it here or in spoilers, but I googled (oh how do I love google? My search terms were something like: Amber Joss shoes Tara Willow Buffy wish, and I found it on the second hit)

Here's a link to a report.

From a Comic Con (? I don't know the con names) in Chicago:

(Joss)"When [Seth Green's werewolf character] Oz left rather suddenly I was devastated. I had a whole year's arc planned. said Whedon. "Though if that had not happened, I would not have met Amber Benson," referring to the actress who became Willow's lesbian love interest, Tara, following Green's departure.

Whedon also explained that prior to contract negotiation problems, he had intended to bring Benson's character back after having her murdered at the end of the sixth season, but how he was to do it.

"About three or four episodes from the end of the last season, Buffy was going to be granted one…reality altering wish. The episode would revolve around her struggling with what she could do for herself with that wish. She could bring Angel back to her..."

Whedon then briefly described the episode ending scene. "Buffy would walk into a room and show Willow these shoes that she wanted. Willow would then express disappointment and say 'You had one reality-altering wish and you wished for shoes?' Buffy would then deny that she had done that and leave. Willow would turn around and there would be Tara."

Since that would have totally Jossed the lesson we learned in season five's Forever, and again with Buffy's horrific depression in season 6? I totally buy it.

In regards to Jenny, Lyra Jane said:

It seems like most witches who aren't Willow, and possibly Tara or Amy, don't really have enough fire power to do anything *but* run when faced with a vamp. Given that, you're right she should have just. gone. home.

Jenny was not a witch. In "I, Robot--You, Jane" she described herself as a technopagan. No powers at all. Giles had to actually recite the spell for the binding to work. Jenny was, however, a huge computer geek. So she used her skill in the only way she could to fight Angel, by trying to duplicate the spell for restoring his soul. Definitely seemed like fighting the good fight to me.

Can someone refresh me- is there a reason she had to work on the soul resoration at the school? She had to have a laptop at her nice, cozy, invite-only home!

That, I don't think, was ever addressed. And I've been known to stay too long at my computer when deeply involved in whatever interests me. But, definitely, in the Buffyverse a very strong sense of self-preservation is required to survive. I'd say Jenny was a tad too altruistic.