Ack, X-post. Maybe someone shoud email Lance about sporking her?
Then again, if what she wants is attention, maybe a studious IGNORE would be best. Don't respond in PF, don't email her, just wait for her to get bored and shut up.
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Ack, X-post. Maybe someone shoud email Lance about sporking her?
Then again, if what she wants is attention, maybe a studious IGNORE would be best. Don't respond in PF, don't email her, just wait for her to get bored and shut up.
She can have the PF folder, but t petty can we take the Buffista name off it first? t /petty
This:
At least I've worked out who Julie is. She is the skin eating monster who tears strips off of people she believes to be weaker than herself...didn't it get slayed by Buffy?
really isn't the sort of thing I want associated with the word Buffista.
Cindy, I didn't go to her site. You're right, I have a much bigger problem with what she put up there than what what she put up at PF. However, I don't know what we can do about what she puts up on her own site.
Lyra, vw is taking a break because she got tired of her ex-friends trolling around bitching about what she was posting here.
More thanks to DX, and chiming in to say that I think that a note to Lance is more than warranted -- I didn't go to PF to read her new posts (and I have her blocked over there anyway), but from what Cindy's quoting, the naming names stuff is seriously ugly.
(and, on a separate note -- Lyra, the last I heard is that VW is lurking when possible, but taking a posting break due to general too-muchness. She's doing well, though, and I'm pretty sure the Somervillains are seeing her regularly.)
Cindy, if it makes you feel any better, she can't spell the names she's ranting after! Le sigh. Not 100% surprised at the not-on-Buffistas ugliness, but certainly displeased. Don't know what should be done about it, or what could be.
I must say, it all resolved itself rather quickly here, didn't it? She was serial posting and being a low-level irritant when I went home from work, and by Buffy-time had been suspended. I'm sort of backhandedly pleased that she was being actively rude and refused to quit; it removes some of the potential ambiguity (and a lot of Buffista argument, I'm seeing?) from the situation.
I'm sorry it had to come to this, and my sympathies with DX for being the one who had to do it, but I'm satisfied, I think, that this was the right thing to do.
I don't know what we can do about what she puts up on her own site.
Well, nothing, and that's really as it should be. I do like the idea of taking the Buffistas name off the PF folder if we can't get her out of there. My feeling is that her (godawful! Is that petty of me?) website is her space, our folder is ours.
Thanks, Amy, DX. Good to know she's (relatively) okay.
My feeling is that her (godawful! Is that petty of me?) website is her space, our folder is ours.
No, I don't think it's petty (hm, maybe I should take those tags off my own post). She's clearly got her own webspace -- she shouldn't be treating our forum like its her blog.
maybe I should take those tags off my own post
Not meant as a comment at all -- actually, I didn't even really register your "petty" tags -- I was just feeling that way myself for commenting on her web design in the midst of a discussion of what to do about her.