Maybe we should have pulled the plug sooner. Maybe we were discrete for too long. There is no perfect way to execute this sort of thing. I beg of you, cut yourselves as least as much slack as you cut him. That is kindness you deserve and will not abuse.
I like books. I just don't want to take on too much. Do they have an introduction to the modern blurb?
Buffy ,'Lessons'
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Trudy Booth - Oct 16, 2016 3:02:41 pm PDT #9972 of 10289
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Beverly - Oct 16, 2016 3:11:04 pm PDT #9973 of 10289
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
(Hugs the stuffing out of Trudy.IJS.)
Steph L. - Oct 16, 2016 3:14:14 pm PDT #9974 of 10289
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
I'm glad you posted that Strix. It's a valuable perspective. And I'm just glad to hear how you are doing, incidentally.
I agree 100%.
Glamcookie - Oct 16, 2016 3:19:14 pm PDT #9975 of 10289
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
And after a quick fall into the Twitter rabbit-hole, I am even more shocked and outraged. Nope, nope, nope. He just has to go.
Steph L. - Oct 16, 2016 3:20:06 pm PDT #9976 of 10289
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
I have no idea how to follow threads/conversations on Twitter. None. So I've read things here and there, but not much because I don't know how.
Glamcookie - Oct 16, 2016 3:24:36 pm PDT #9977 of 10289
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Suffice it to say that there are many women reporting abuse, gaslighting,manipulation, and have been through it multiple times with it always culminating in a mea culpa (as it has this time). Enough already. Dude needs some serious consequences - maybe it'll actually turn out to be helpful to him. Either way, I know it'll be helpful for the women in our community.
Laura - Oct 16, 2016 4:00:46 pm PDT #9978 of 10289
Our wings are not tired.
Thank you, Strix. I know that wasn't easy and I both understand and agree.
Anne W. - Oct 16, 2016 4:02:12 pm PDT #9979 of 10289
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
But being genuinely sorry doesn't mean shit in this kind of situation; demonstrating, over and over and over again, that you are no longer a toxic person is the only thing that really matters.
This. THIS. THIS. Thank you, Strix.
Lee - Oct 16, 2016 4:08:29 pm PDT #9980 of 10289
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
I've been hesitant to say anything on this since I am not here enough to feel like I should have much of a vote, but I support the stompy ban, and hate that this whole thing has happened.
Zenkitty - Oct 16, 2016 4:52:16 pm PDT #9981 of 10289
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Strix and Trudy laying down some wisdom.