I know sometimes it is not clear why some of us push a bit on process issues.
I agree that we should strive for "good enough" rather than perfection. "Good Enough" IMO includes a modicum of fairness - not perfect fairness but some reasonable degree of fairness. Not because the issues are so important, but because deciding them in a way that is clearly unfair elevates them to an importance they won't otherwise have. Also, an unfair decision making process leaves a bad taste in peoples mouths. People sometimes compare the Buffistas to an ongoing cocktail party; if the process set up is not reasonably fair, then the party will be slightly less fun; even those who pay no attention to process isssues will notice after a while. So a reasonably fair process, not perfectly fair, but reasonably fair is important - even in cases where the outcome is OK.
So far, we have one portion of our process that is informal, but I think nonetheless fair; once an issue is brought up for a vote,we use old style Buffista 'consensus' to set out exactly what the choices will be and what the language of the ballot is.
But in order for it to be reasonably fair (not perfectly fair, just reasonably, just good enough) I think we need to agree on one thing. We need to agree that if an issue has more than two reasonable potential choices, there should Not be a strong bias towards limiting it to two choices - not if there is any significant support for a third option.
Because the whole point of having a vote following the discussion is that opinion in the vote may not reflect opinion in the discussion. If we were not taking that possiblity into consideration we would not bother having votes; we would simply decide the issue by a majority of those in this thread.
Now in the spirit of "good enough" we don't try to include options that nobody in the thread supports; at least we have not yet. IMO though, any option that is a reasonable choice in relation to the issue under discussion, and has support from a strong minority posting on the thread should be included as a choice on the ballot.
Because otherwise you are calling a vote on an issue, excluding a reasonable choice with support from that vote, and not allowing a revote on it for between three and six month. And if that becomes our process, I think the amount of fairness won't be "good enough" , and the ongoing party this board is will be just a little less fun than it could be.
I don't care about the difference between our three choices that much. I care about excluding one of these choices, without a chance to vote on it, a great deal.
I hope the above was clear and concise enough not to constitute obnoxious windbaggery.