Wash: So, two days in a hospital? That's awful. Don't you just hate doctors? Simon: Hey. Wash: I mean, present company excluded. Jayne: Let's not be excluding people. That'd be rude.

'Ariel'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Shir - Jul 13, 2025 1:28:40 am PDT #8262 of 9267
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Hi all. I'm sorry to barge in out of the blue with a difficult question, but these are the cards I have today.

I got a concerning email from a friend in Seattle who is mentally struggling. Other than directing her to a crisis line and offering to talk with her, is there anything I can do from abroad? I have her number (but I'm abroad so she can't receive texts or calls from me) and her address (and again, I'm abroad so I can't knock on her door). I was wondering if you happen to have other ideas.

Edited: I eventually remembered that you can call people based on their emails via Google Meet, so I'm trying that.


Laura - Jul 13, 2025 5:47:10 am PDT #8263 of 9267
Our wings are not tired.

WhatsApp works well too.


Calli - Jul 13, 2025 6:05:00 am PDT #8264 of 9267
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Theresa’s going to be a Nichelle Nichols space camp! [link]


meara - Jul 13, 2025 8:00:03 am PDT #8265 of 9267

Oh Shir good luck. I hope your friend is ok and gets help.


Shir - Jul 13, 2025 12:45:43 pm PDT #8266 of 9267
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Thank you all. Just heard back from the friend, and hopefully she'll get help today.

The being worried for friends overseas in different time zones can be really worrying. I feel like there should be a "I'm still alive" button for folks to check your status, whether it's war (hiiiiiiii) or ideations.


JenP - Jul 13, 2025 12:47:42 pm PDT #8267 of 9267

Oh, Shir, I'm so glad to hear you heard back. That is a scary place to be -- when you're a world away from a friend in need like that.


Sheryl - Jul 13, 2025 5:05:12 pm PDT #8268 of 9267
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Today is Mr. S's birthday. He is 10.(I know!) Yesterday, Gary, his mom and Mr. S went to get a new bicycle for him.(He outgrew his old one a while back) We ordered take-out from a local Italian restaurant, with lemon cake for dessert.

We were woken up far too early for a Sunday by Mr. S, who was bouncing off the walls. Breakfast was waffles, then he and I worked on his new Lego set(Hei-Hei from Moana) which arrived early this morning. He then proceeded to take a nap. He is now back at the unit.

Pretty good weekend over all.


Laura - Jul 13, 2025 6:00:32 pm PDT #8269 of 9267
Our wings are not tired.

It's good to hear that the birthday weekend went well, Sheryl. It is mind-blowing that he is 10 now.


-t - Jul 13, 2025 6:00:52 pm PDT #8270 of 9267
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That sounds like a lot of birthday goodness! Glad to read it!


P.M. Marc - Jul 13, 2025 7:33:10 pm PDT #8271 of 9267
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Shir, hoping your friend can find good help and some welcome relief.