Riley: No pulse. Anya: Yup. The space lamb got 'im.

'Never Leave Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Mar 28, 2025 10:58:24 am PDT #6428 of 6486
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Though I think once I get into a groove with the Pilates classes I'll have more regular contact.

I really like the people at the place I’ve started doing yoga. It’s in the next neighborhood over, where the university is, so the people are an eclectic mix that’s Trump’s worst nightmare.

I’ll miss yoga next week, though, because the bookstore in my neighborhood has a book club (the Anti-Despair Book Club, formed after the 2024 election), and it meets the same time as yoga class. It’s only once every two or three months, so I don’t mind skipping yoga for it.

I am essentially dragging myself kicking and screaming out of the house before I transform entirely into a creepy shut-in. (OTOH, Covid is still a thing, which makes me wary, even with masks.)

And despite me saying that ^^^ (re: wary), I’m currently killing time at the nail salon waiting for my pedicure to dry. My winter feet were in desperate need of some TLC and a new color (dark purple; I like only dark colors on my toes, though I was tickled to see a few people getting very 1980s neon colors).


Laura - Mar 28, 2025 11:55:56 am PDT #6429 of 6486
Our wings are not tired.

I am essentially dragging myself kicking and screaming out of the house before I transform entirely into a creepy shut-in.

It is so tempting to do this. So much less effort.

I'm getting somewhere with my condo association battle. Short version is that I started the book club group for 2nd Wednesdays, and another resident started a Thirsty Third Wednesday group for happy hour BYOB type stuff. We were posting our announcements on the condo website with no issue for a few months when suddenly the powers that be decided this was dangerous with potential damage and liability or some such foolishness. Many emails ensued for some time, with our announcements not published the past couple months. Finally, my latest missive was sent to all the board members explaining that socialization is normally a priority in groups with common socialization areas. They actually responded like they finally heard what we were saying and now are going to have a community calendar coordinated with the social committee. I feel accomplished! My best chances for socialization are with the people who live in our condo neighborhood!


Jessica - Mar 28, 2025 12:08:55 pm PDT #6430 of 6486
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I am essentially dragging myself kicking and screaming out of the house before I transform entirely into a creepy shut-in.

I think my transformation is already complete. I do have to come to the office 3 days a week, but actual socialization with people I don't live or work with? Yeah, I don't do that. (Proximity matters, and our best friends are all 45 minutes away at minimum.)


askye - Mar 28, 2025 12:10:37 pm PDT #6431 of 6486
Thrive to spite them

I really want to get back to pen and paper journaling. There are a few of my co workers I'd like to hang out with outside of work. But I haven't tried really hard yet. One of them is around my age. But there is also a coworker that can be a lot so no one wants to hang out with her much outside of work but they also don't want to hurt her feelings.

I'm in insurance/Dr hell loop right now. But it should be resolved as soon as I can call the Drs office.


Hil R. - Mar 28, 2025 4:14:16 pm PDT #6432 of 6486
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've been trying not to spend too much time obsessing about the news unless it was trying to find something I can do to help things get better, but the newest thing (DeWine signing SB1) is affecting my actual job, so there's really no way to avoid it.


Laura - Mar 28, 2025 5:55:09 pm PDT #6433 of 6486
Our wings are not tired.

Elise Stefanik is the rep for the Otter Lake district. Her campaign signs have her staring adoringly at her favorite president. It delights me that they are too afraid of losing the seat to let her have the promised UN appointment. Yes, Elise, your loyalty will indeed go unrewarded. I doubt that the seat was really at risk, but apparently someone else is owed more than Elise.


-t - Mar 28, 2025 7:08:12 pm PDT #6434 of 6486
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I’m sorry, Hil

I think my transformation is already complete.

Yeah, it’s an uphill battle to convince myself to try to reverse the process at this point. I do feel like I should, but it’s gonna take so much effort


askye - Mar 28, 2025 7:31:37 pm PDT #6435 of 6486
Thrive to spite them

The Table Rock Fire has grown to 10,000 acres and we won't have rain until Sunday.i think it's 0% contained

I finally got the issue with my CT scan fixed. It took about 7 phone calls...I didn't make them all...I got a call from my doctor's office, the imaging place and BCBS. But Monday I will have the CT scan and I'm sure it will show everything is fine.

E is coming for a very brief visit and unfortunately I will only get to see him the day he gets here. It's the 15th, the day after my HIDA scan . I can't ask for any other days off because other people have.

And I was going to plan our trip to FL for the end of April but ...I think I'm going to wait and plan it until I know what is going on and if I'll need more tests or have answers. I don't want to plan something and then have to push it off. I'm working off the assumption that the HIDA scan will show everything is fine and I'll need to do more testing.... because I don't want to be optimistic that I'll get answers and then be disappointed. I'm disappointed enough every day I wake up and remember oh hey...our country is being run by fascists who are also stupid.


lisah - Mar 29, 2025 5:28:23 am PDT #6436 of 6486
Punishingly Intricate

Ugh I’m sorry, askye, that’s too much


Sheryl - Mar 29, 2025 12:39:36 pm PDT #6437 of 6486
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Stressed about life in general, and the RIFs affecting my workplace. As a lab tech I should hopefully be spared, but one can never tell with this administration...

On the good side, Barada is letting me skritch her a bit. It's been almost two months since we brought her and her sister home, so progress is being made slowly.