Giles: Helping out with the dishes makes me feel useful. Dawn: Wanna clean out the garage with us Saturday? You could feel indispensable.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 18, 2025 9:21:38 am PDT #6275 of 6292
Our wings are not tired.

61! That is very cool.

We are on our way home after the keys excursion. Brendon was pleased that we had the kitchen and enjoyed my meals in the lovely pool courtyard. For the chefs, we had fresh salad with avocado slices and mahi sautéed in butter and local mango hot sauce one night. Last night I made chicken in a Thai type peanut sauce I made up and brought with us along with an oriental slaw with lime juice and sesame seeds and walnuts among other things. Super yum. The first night we ate out because it was late. But all other meals we made and ate outside. Which is pretty much what I do at home, but with the sounds of roosters, because Key West. We cruised around people watching the tourists but I don’t have interest in bar hopping at this point in life. I had wine and he had rum & coke while relaxing by the pool.


-t - Mar 18, 2025 10:10:32 am PDT #6276 of 6292
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Lego set spreadsheet

What a magical phrase!

That sounds very pleasant, Laura, I'm glad you enjoyed it


Jesse - Mar 18, 2025 10:21:44 am PDT #6277 of 6292
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Very glad Mr. flea got out under his own power.

I would like to be in Key West with someone else cooking for me. That sounds lovely.

Here, enjoy this lovely remembrance of Michelle Trachtenberg by Mara WIlson: [link]


meara - Mar 18, 2025 10:28:29 am PDT #6278 of 6292

Key West sounds lovely. Yesterday it was pouring rain and cold and even hailing at one point.


-t - Mar 18, 2025 10:57:22 am PDT #6279 of 6292
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a very sweet remembrance


EpicTangent - Mar 18, 2025 10:58:44 am PDT #6280 of 6292
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Palliative care is not the same as hospice care.

This! They scared the hell out of me (and my friend who was still going to appointments with me at the time) when they referred me to Palliative Care. But I love my Palliative Care doc; she's the best!


DavidS - Mar 18, 2025 11:13:54 am PDT #6281 of 6292
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

For the chefs, we had fresh salad with avocado slices and mahi sautéed in butter and local mango hot sauce one night. Last night I made chicken in a Thai type peanut sauce I made up and brought with us along with an oriental slaw with lime juice and sesame seeds and walnuts among other things. Super yum. The first night we ate out because it was late. But all other meals we made and ate outside. Which is pretty much what I do at home, but with the sounds of roosters, because Key West. We cruised around people watching the tourists but I don’t have interest in bar hopping at this point in life. I had wine and he had rum & coke while relaxing by the pool.

That sounds idyllic and those meals sound delicious.


dcp - Mar 18, 2025 11:21:43 am PDT #6282 of 6292
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

scared the hell out of me

Yeah. I can laugh about it now, but at my first visit with my oncologist, when she introduced herself with "I'm a palliative care specialist," I was stunned. I like to think I didn't show my panic externally, but internally my first thought was, "I didn't think I was *that* bad off! I'm not ready for hospice!" It took quite some time to get over that shock, and learn the difference.


DavidS - Mar 18, 2025 11:25:21 am PDT #6283 of 6292
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Very sweet reminiscence of Michelle.

Though I got a jolt when I realized her childhood friend Reeve Carney was Dorian Gray on Penny Dreadful!


Trudy Booth - Mar 18, 2025 11:30:12 am PDT #6284 of 6292
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Yeah, palliative care called me about mom and I was all... "Which call is this?"

It was planning the eventual transition from treatment to palliative care and making decisions for a later date... not the later date.