If you take sexual advantage of her, you're going to burn in a very special level of hell. A level they reserve for child molesters and people who talk at the theater.

Book ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sophia Brooks - Mar 13, 2025 8:51:41 am PDT #6105 of 6120
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

His born-again sister considered Catholics as only Christian-adjacent or something.
I remember having this argument on the school bus when I was a kid- I was nothing (my mom was Catholic, but due to literal thinking, she thought I couldn't be because I was born out of wedlock- the neurodivergence runs deep in my family). The other girl was a "born-again" Christian and said Catholics were not Christians, and I was also literal and was like... um, wasn't Paul the rock, and upon this rock I will build my foundation? I get that there are more interpretations now, but I was so confused!

Damn this crumbling human shell.

Aargh! I actually did NOT get diagnosed with Carpel Tunnel when I may have had it in the 90s because I was 18 and still on my mom's insurance and my Dr. did not want to give me a pre-existing condition. I only have numbness while sleeping though, because T-Rex arms.

Calli:(Also, I think we have similar jobs.)
I think you might also be an instructional designer at a private university. If so yes, we have very similar jobs, except maybe because I was promoted up, I am still doing student recruitment...It is weird. I have to have a master's to move up, although my colleagues across the Univerisity have said my 25 years of doing this work should be equivalent if I want to move out of the School of Nursing.

WRT to Ozempic, is anyone else (other than Nanita) a Patreon supporter of Crime Writers On Posdcast. Then have an amazing episode about their personal journeys with medical weightloss. I would also just recommend them SO MUCH because they are so much more than true crime. They really dissect shows in a way that gives me vibes like we discussed Buffy and they are fun, cool people


sj - Mar 13, 2025 8:57:22 am PDT #6106 of 6120
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Jen, that’s very interesting. I haven’t take ozempic, but I might be headed in that direction. For me being on ADHD meds has drastically reduced the good noise in my head, but when it has worn off in the evening, it comes back with a vengeance.


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2025 9:09:34 am PDT #6107 of 6120
I look more rad than Lutheranism

His born-again sister considered Catholics as only Christian-adjacent or something.

I remember that from the freak-ass church! Granted, they were so extreme that they believed you couldn't assume that other Protestant sects were *really* Christian — if pressed, the FAC seemed to believe they were genuinely the only "true" Christians. Should that have set off my "Danger: This Is A Fucking Cult" alarm sooner than it did? Yes. Yes, it should have.

Anyway, my understanding is that a lot of evangelical Christians, particularly the born-again variety, think Catholics are un-Christian idol worshippers. Those folks need to fucking chill out.


meara - Mar 13, 2025 9:32:55 am PDT #6108 of 6120

Yep, I am now on zepbound, and it’s not quite as strong as what I was on before but it still helps SO much. Like, I don’t count calories, but just the not snacking and not eating an entire bag of chips because I’m bored and my mouth wants entertainment is enough to keep me from gaining weight. It’s wild.


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2025 9:43:53 am PDT #6109 of 6120
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I'm still annoyed our insurance won't cover the GLP-1 meds (Ozempic, et al), because there's more and more evidence that they're beneficial for a lot of conditions. I do know there are compounding pharmacies online where I could get treatment with GLP-1 meds, but for now I'm sticking to the boring slog of tracking my food. (I deliberately stopped tracking around the holidays because I wanted to eat tasty tasty holiday food -- and then I didn't start tracking again and shit got so stressful after the inauguration I was like, WELP, gonna eat my feelings on this hellscape, and long story short, I regained like 8 pounds. So I am dutifully tracking my food again. Being responsible is bullshit when I just want to eat all the Reese's Easter eggs [aka, God's perfect food].)


Calli - Mar 13, 2025 10:23:17 am PDT #6110 of 6120
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Ugh. I came back from lunch to an email about “strategic realignment and cost-reduction”, with more details to come. That’s not nerve wracking at all.


lisah - Mar 13, 2025 10:24:53 am PDT #6111 of 6120
Punishingly Intricate

I don’t want to not think about food. Thinking about food means not obsessively thinking about all the terrible things happening in the world and how I’m virtually powerless to stop them. Also, food gives me joy! And is interesting to me.


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2025 10:49:31 am PDT #6112 of 6120
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I have reached over to drink out of my empty glass 3 times in the last 5 minutes. I suppose it won't refill itself. [hand to forehead] My life is so hard.


JenP - Mar 13, 2025 10:59:47 am PDT #6113 of 6120

Heh, food still gives me joy! It just has a much loosened grip on my brain that I truly appreciate.

Forgot I have a workshop this afternoon. Only ten minutes late...


Jessica - Mar 13, 2025 11:20:44 am PDT #6114 of 6120
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I think this will be hell for everyone but I'm going to spread the misery around.

100% stealing this as my new motto.

Also echoing everyone who supports your right to live in a house that won't explode!

Sophia, that sounds like a great boss and a good performance review!

I had my annual review today also, but I've worked with my current boss for close to seven years now (and she is THE BEST) which means the conversation lasts about as long as it takes me to read the peer feedback and say "Yep, same as last year."