Jayne is a girl's name.

River ,'Trash'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 07, 2025 6:58:47 am PST #5946 of 5991
Our wings are not tired.

Slow Friday so far. There is not enough internet activity to help me delay finishing my taxes. I am going to start over with another vendor because the 2 I tried already don't make sense. Also, I am seriously annoyed that my Social Security is taxable income. Married filing jointly with more than $44,000 income means my SS is 85% taxable. Not cool.


JenP - Mar 07, 2025 7:27:39 am PST #5947 of 5991

It'll be a slow Friday for me, too. I was all 50+ job workshop all day, and then some paid bookkeeping all week, and I'm kind of exhausted.

Today I am going to pick up books I have on hold at the library--and hang there and start reading one--then a quick run through Aldi and back home. I do have a couple of onerous tasks when I get back, but they won't take too long.

Then I just want to read.


-t - Mar 07, 2025 8:00:56 am PST #5948 of 5991
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You know, watching Severance does not combat my Friday morning but-I-don’t-want-to-work mood at all


-t - Mar 07, 2025 8:01:26 am PST #5949 of 5991
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yay library!


askye - Mar 07, 2025 8:57:37 am PST #5950 of 5991
Thrive to spite them

My telehealth appointment was scheduled at 1140. They asked for me to be signed in 15 mins early. It's now 1157 and I'm still waiting.


Consuela - Mar 07, 2025 9:13:20 am PST #5951 of 5991
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

The fun thing about the Return to Office mandate is that on a day when I feel a little under the weather and I could just work from home, I am taking actual sick leave and not really working (although i did some email). Forcing everyone into the office is LESS PRODUCTIVE people!

But of course that's the point: they want gov to be less productive and the employees to be seen as bad at their jobs, so as to justify getting rid of government entirely.

Everything is wonderful all of the time...


Jessica - Mar 07, 2025 9:15:01 am PST #5952 of 5991
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Holy fuck y'all how did I get almost 400 messages behind???

onscreen data showed that he was sitting in a "collabocus" room.

Never have I regretted revealing a whitefont more, and that's saying something (I miss ita).

I'm wondering if I should ask my doctor about a measles booster. I know I had all the vaccinations that were required when I was a kid, but I'm seeing some recommendations for adults who work on college campuses to get boosters, since campus are filled with tons of people who frequently travel all over the world, so pretty much anything that's spreading anywhere can eventually end up here.

When I started grad school I couldn't find my MMR vaccine records (because they were on paper from 40 years ago) so I had blood drawn and that showed I needed to get re-vaxxed (titers were just below the "you are immune from these diseases" limit). So yeah, anyone over 40 who interacts with student populations or travels a lot should probably get boosted.

I feel badly for ordinary Russians...ordinary Israelis too

See also: ordinary Americans.

I’m figuring either shit goes so bad that my retirement money is just a pipe dream, or I’ve got long enough that it can bounce back. I hope.

Oof, this. I have to keep reminding myself not to check those accounts because the stock market right now is so bonkers that the day-to-day changes are going to be meaningless (until they're not? we'll see!)

Perimeopause is a bitch. My gyno put me on HRT about a week ago, I'm not sure if it's helping or not yet.


brenda m - Mar 07, 2025 9:32:29 am PST #5953 of 5991
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

It is performance review season and I have just over a dozen. I have to do this week and next. (The reviews are done in December, this is the reveal along with bonus, and comp increases.) The process by which people get ranked as good/stronger/exceptional is endless and confusing so even when the money is good the conversations can be a little stressful.

Basically, I have a whole team of former gifted student/over-achievers I have to convince to be happy with Good.


askye - Mar 07, 2025 9:33:59 am PST #5954 of 5991
Thrive to spite them

Ok. Saw the Dr. He said it seems like it's Vasovagal syncope , but what is causing it ? Who knows. Possibly peri menopause. He is giving me a prescription for an anti nausea med and what's it for the dizziness to try and control the symptoms.

I have my quarterly Please give me my ADHD meds appointment on the 25th so he is going to run my A1C again to see what that says and see how I'm doing


Laura - Mar 07, 2025 9:40:47 am PST #5955 of 5991
Our wings are not tired.

I hope the meds help quickly, askye.

Holy fuck y'all how did I get almost 400 messages behind???

Hi, Jessica! Yeah, that whole having a life thing can be very disruptive.

So I am still dealing with my tax return. Going to have to do some creative accounting.