I swear, one of these times, you're gonna wake up in a coma.

Cordelia ,'Showtime'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Jul 22, 2024 11:42:39 am PDT #1696 of 2648
Our wings are not tired.

Good thinking. Although an owl tortilla would be upsetting.


JenP - Jul 22, 2024 11:54:22 am PDT #1697 of 2648

I am proud of myself for a very simple thing, which is that I made a lunch that involved cooking in a PAN and chopping a vegetable... it's been a while. Anyway, I'm calling it Turkey Tomato Stroganoff, and it is damn tasty! And it met my nutritional objectives, so that's a win.

In not great news of the last week... DH's project at work did not get a contract renewal, and he is going to be out of the job as of next month, with a small severance, but, hey, better than nothing. We'll be fine -- I already crunched the numbers, and living with more attention to frugality (which, let's face it, is a habit that I could stand to exercise more...), it's actually better than I thought when I first got the news. But still, he is bummed, and the tech job market ain't what it used to be, and age can be a challenge if we're honest. So, all good vibes appreciated.


DavidS - Jul 22, 2024 12:16:07 pm PDT #1698 of 2648
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Anyway, I'm calling it Turkey Tomato Stroganoff, and it is damn tasty!

Yay for Turkey Tomato Stroganoff! Boo on contract non-renewal!

It's a glorious day in San Francisco and once Matilda is forcibly evicted from her bed we'll clean the Guinea Pig cage.

I'm feeling beset by mortality. My FB memories are all on an inevitable track into the darkest timeline. Still feeling sad about Cupid's death (the dog we frequently dogsat). And my friend Josh, who was such a help and support during Jacqueline's cancer treatment, looks like he's nearing the end after five years of cancer treatment. We discussed the realities of hospice when I called him.

Still, it was a good call with all the lashings of black humor we've always had in our friendship. I'm going to talk to his wife about all the transition issues that come up. His daughter is Matilda's age.


Pix - Jul 22, 2024 12:39:30 pm PDT #1699 of 2648
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

This is the case. Also, there will be much more interest in an election season that a large percentage wasn't paying attention to. Yes, there may be some who come out to vote against her, but if they are that passionately bigoted they were already going to vote for Trump. There are a lot more people who were completely numb to the election that now have a choice they can get behind.
This is where my head is, too.

Hugs, Hec. I've been thinking about you.


NoiseDesign - Jul 22, 2024 1:48:04 pm PDT #1700 of 2648
Our wings are not tired

David, really thinking of you. The weight of our fragile mortality has been so ever-present for you.


-t - Jul 22, 2024 2:34:28 pm PDT #1701 of 2648
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good vibes for your DH, JenP. I have been known to make ketleti substituting turkey for beef and V8 for milk so I feel like I must support Turkey Tomato Stroganoff

Mortality needs a timeout. Or something.


Pix - Jul 22, 2024 3:28:37 pm PDT #1702 of 2648
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Things that happened the past week:

-Our tankless water heater died (it has been threatening to do so for two years but is really dead now), and we have to move it outside the house because the current one is vented completely wrong, so that's about $7800 between the new tankless heater and all the replumbing and removal. We will finance it, but sheesh.

-I went to the eye doctor to see why the corneal abrasion in my eye won't heal, and she diagnosed me with shingles. In my EYE. Which hurts a lot, for the record. So I'm starting the treatment immediately and have to cancel the colonoscopy I was supposed to have Thursday and the trip home to see my mom and extended family I was supposed to take this weekend.

-If I don't get an offer by the end of the month, my realtors recommended I take Dad's condo off the market until October and then try again. Money woes tmi.

-Newton, our middle dog, has to have two small tumors removed Wednesday.

-Kaylee, our old lady, is declining. Not sure how much time she has left.

It has been a lot. I'm doing okay and we will get through it -- not looking for solutions or anything -- but man.


askye - Jul 22, 2024 3:53:25 pm PDT #1703 of 2648
Thrive to spite them

((Pix))) that is a lot and I'm really sorry you are dealing with it all at once.

(((Hec)))


JenP - Jul 22, 2024 3:59:57 pm PDT #1704 of 2648

Oof, that is a lot , Kristin. Shingles in your EYE? I am beyond sorry. That's awful take excellent care of that. Good vibes on all the rest, too.

Hec, that is a lot of mortality right in your zone. Sending you comforting, peaceful vibes and to your friend.


Sheryl - Jul 22, 2024 4:14:14 pm PDT #1705 of 2648
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Got back from Buffalo last night. Mr. S was discharged from the hospital on Friday, and stayed with the nanny over the weekend. We have referrals to various therapists for him. Let's see how it goes.

Oh, and thank you all. I needed the dose of positivity over recent events. Another forum I lurk at has a lot of people crying doom(mostly people who didn't want Biden to drop out- and they are blaming the posters who did) and it stresses me out. I know it's not going to be an easy road, but let's not give up yet.