A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jul 22, 2024 3:53:25 pm PDT #1703 of 3431
Thrive to spite them

((Pix))) that is a lot and I'm really sorry you are dealing with it all at once.

(((Hec)))


JenP - Jul 22, 2024 3:59:57 pm PDT #1704 of 3431

Oof, that is a lot , Kristin. Shingles in your EYE? I am beyond sorry. That's awful take excellent care of that. Good vibes on all the rest, too.

Hec, that is a lot of mortality right in your zone. Sending you comforting, peaceful vibes and to your friend.


Sheryl - Jul 22, 2024 4:14:14 pm PDT #1705 of 3431
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Got back from Buffalo last night. Mr. S was discharged from the hospital on Friday, and stayed with the nanny over the weekend. We have referrals to various therapists for him. Let's see how it goes.

Oh, and thank you all. I needed the dose of positivity over recent events. Another forum I lurk at has a lot of people crying doom(mostly people who didn't want Biden to drop out- and they are blaming the posters who did) and it stresses me out. I know it's not going to be an easy road, but let's not give up yet.


Laura - Jul 22, 2024 4:20:02 pm PDT #1706 of 3431
Our wings are not tired.

Yikes, Kristin! That is a whole lot of lot.


Steph L. - Jul 22, 2024 4:28:06 pm PDT #1707 of 3431
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Pix, that is way too much for you to deal with, coming on the heels of everything you and Drew have had to deal with in the past year. I want your life to get very very boring and for your health to be good and your money to stay in your bank account, very very soon.


NoiseDesign - Jul 22, 2024 4:33:22 pm PDT #1708 of 3431
Our wings are not tired

I want your life to get very very boring and for your health to be good and your money to stay in your bank account, very very soon.

From your lips to the flying spaghetti monster's ears.


sj - Jul 22, 2024 5:51:38 pm PDT #1709 of 3431
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Pix}}} I’m so sorry. That is entirely too much.


-t - Jul 22, 2024 5:52:32 pm PDT #1710 of 3431
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

shingles. In my EYE.

Oh no! Sympathies and best wishes on the rest of it, I don’t mean to downplay any of it, but this in particular is hitting my lizard brain as terrible. I hope the reality is not so bad.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 22, 2024 5:55:20 pm PDT #1711 of 3431
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I want your life to get very very boring and for your health to be good and your money to stay in your bank account, very very soon.

Me too!

David- I don't really know how to do this, but you need, like tier 3 support from UCSF. I am going to guess that there is also a University IT support AND a Medical IT supprt, and the right hand won't know what the left hand is doing. Is there an angry 50 year old woman at JZ's old office who could help with this? Because stuff like this chaps my ass and I am always escalating, but I know who to contact and what to say to escalate here at my University/Medical Center. I am 100% sure there is a profile on there that was somehow remote installed and it needs to be removed. I will ask my IT friends if they have any connections at UCSF, but they would be on the education side. This is ridiculous! I am angry!


Dana - Jul 22, 2024 5:58:32 pm PDT #1712 of 3431
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

That is way too much, Pix.