I swear, one of these times, you're gonna wake up in a coma.

Cordelia ,'Showtime'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Jul 11, 2024 4:48:48 pm PDT #1492 of 3451
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Theo, I'm sorry for the losses. But also grateful for the ones who are moving to better circumstances.

Pix and Drew, I'm sorry for circumstances with your dad's carer, too. You did far more for him than would have been expected.

Here it's 20F degrees lower temps today than it has been all week. I'm sitting here in my chair and *not sweating at all!* Also the deep-tissue aches I have in hot weather are...not! I also picked up a few new exercizes at PT yesterday, and I'm feeling pretty accomplished about those. Pretty much baby steps, but I can move and not die, so that's a big plus.

Mr. Man is driving again. If I'd known that driving would restore his will to live I'd have handed over the keys long ago (no I wouldn't--he was sick and weak, but he's strong enough now it's not a risk).


Laura - Jul 11, 2024 5:22:10 pm PDT #1493 of 3451
Our wings are not tired.

TL,DR: Death sucks.

Yes.

Mr. Man is driving again. If I'd known that driving would restore his will to live I'd have handed over the keys long ago (no I wouldn't--he was sick and weak, but he's strong enough now it's not a risk).

The to drive or not to drive question can be very complex.


Steph L. - Jul 11, 2024 6:05:06 pm PDT #1494 of 3451
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Pix and Drew, I'm so sorry about J. That's very sad.


Laura - Jul 11, 2024 6:42:36 pm PDT #1495 of 3451
Our wings are not tired.

In random last minute decision making, I just made reservations to fly to Florida Saturday. My MIL's 80th birthday is Sunday (yes, she is closer to my age than DH), and my sister is having surgery on Tuesday and I just thought both would appreciate me being there. Brendon is over the moon. I think he might miss me.


lisah - Jul 11, 2024 7:29:44 pm PDT #1496 of 3451
Punishingly Intricate

Oh Pix and Drew that is so sad


Matt the Bruins fan - Jul 12, 2024 6:56:26 am PDT #1497 of 3451
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

My condolences, Pix and Drew. You really did go above and beyond for him, I don't think you should have any regrets for how you handled things on your end.


dcp - Jul 12, 2024 9:16:48 am PDT #1498 of 3451
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

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Theodosia - Jul 13, 2024 7:21:05 am PDT #1499 of 3451
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

What are people doing this weekend?


Steph L. - Jul 13, 2024 8:05:01 am PDT #1500 of 3451
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

My very exciting Saturday involves taking the car for its 5000-mile service, since (1) it's due, and (2) we leave for the beach in 2 weeks and want to make sure the car is in shape.


Jessica - Jul 13, 2024 8:11:18 am PDT #1501 of 3451
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I got my car back from the collision repair place this morning, and I'm getting my oldest kid back from LA tonight! Babies returning home all day, woo!