I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Aug 23, 2026 5:24:15 am PDT #13684 of 14045
Our wings are not tired.

That sounds amazing, Shir. I'm so happy for you. "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it"

I'm hoping that now that DH might be retiring from coaching, we can travel more. Belgium, hmmm. Maybe.


Tom Scola - Aug 23, 2026 9:13:00 am PDT #13685 of 14045
Where do you come from? Where do you go? What is your scene, baby? We just gotta know.

Judging by all the cosplayers I see walking towards the Javitz Center, I guess there’s some sort of AnimeCon today?


askye - Aug 23, 2026 9:33:11 am PDT #13686 of 14045
Thrive to spite them

Teppy I hope your surgery goes smoothly and there are no evil parts in there. Not that you are getting body parts but you never know where evil lurks

I saw an article something about the definitive Spike line and I was like oh. "Out for a walk...bitch" but no they meant his love and blood speech. Which, ok, that makes more sense.

My brother is kind of semi estranged from mom and dad. He did talk to Mom and she told me they did and she sounded positive. Then I talked to him and he said she managed to say things she thought were positive but hurt . So....families are complicated.

I have a cold. I'm at work because I fucked around with my PPTO and also missing some days and not claiming them right (and being late) so I have too many points to stay home.

However frequently using saline spray for my nose seems to have helped a lot. At least I don't feel as congested as yesterday and I'm not groggy from cold medicine.


DavidS - Aug 23, 2026 1:53:30 pm PDT #13687 of 14045
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So I want to focus on oral histories and testimonies. I've been listening to and taking oral history interviews for years now.

That's so cool. My cousin interviewed my grandmother before she died and I have an MP3 of it.

Fascinating to hear stories about her growing up in the early 1900s. When she was 12 she snuck a joy ride on her brother's horse!


erikaj - Aug 23, 2026 5:02:44 pm PDT #13688 of 14045
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I interviewed my grandma for Women's Studies...it was one of the few times I thought we really communicated. (And not just because I got to set the tone a little, although that didn't hurt. I think she liked being thought of as ahead of her time, too) I think about that kind of stuff when people get going about how useless the liberal arts and gender studies are.Especially since being in class with Krysten Sinema isn't a cool story anymore...she was on, like, her fourth degree at the time, another thing about her I didn't realize till much later.


-t - Aug 24, 2026 8:27:08 am PDT #13689 of 14045
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oral history is very cool, you're whole adventure sounds amazing, Shir!

I also got a soup bowl that has handles and the word SOUP in all caps for a dollar

That's awesome


askye - Aug 24, 2026 12:11:08 pm PDT #13690 of 14045
Thrive to spite them

I had somw stranger leave some rude comments on some.posts I had public from 2017 and I think before. I made a half sarcastic "I'm confused why did you do do this?" And 2 people came to my defense and explained he was trolling. Which I knew. I jist wanted to see how he wpuld react.

Silence. So I was kind of bored and messaged him asking why he hadn't responded if he wanted attention because I wanted to help him. And he said I clearly didn't want the attention and I was being weird and to leave him alone. I probably shouldn't have but... I mostly wanted to know if he would give a reason or try to justify what he did.


Jessica - Aug 25, 2026 8:07:16 am PDT #13691 of 14045
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Guys, did you know that raw garlic kills sourdough starter? Well now, so do I...

Signed, let's hope the emergency injection of commercial yeast was enough to save this loaf! It's ugly but it does smell great!

(Buffy is fine, btw, the only casualty was the levain* used in this garlic-herb loaf.)

(*Yes I call it Faith Levain. Because obviously.)


-t - Aug 25, 2026 9:15:08 am PDT #13692 of 14045
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I had no idea! Huh. Glad to hear Buffy was not affected by this addition to our knowledge!


erikaj - Aug 25, 2026 10:32:00 am PDT #13693 of 14045
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Well, let's hope Faith doesn't lose her three. Got some unwanted help from a neighbor and now the ramp outside my door looks great and our sidewalk outside is swept. which is fine, I guess, but who cares what that looks like? Nobody told me that coming into midlife would feel like a "Curb Your Enthusiasm" so much of the time. only I can't act like Larry ever, even when I most feel like it. And, it's so stupid--we bought them a gift to thank them for doing this thing we don't care about.(They're the kind of off-balance Christian it's, like, better to stay on the good side of.) But the flip side of being called to beautify something is that you thought it was an eyesore that maybe you couldn't stand to look at for one. more. instant. and I don't really need *that* thought in my head, either, argh. It really does look nice, but it probably won't last, and it's annoying being two punches on someone's Heavenly Frequent Flyer Miles.