Honestly, you meet the most appalling sort of people....

Giles ,'Chosen'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Oct 14, 2021 9:10:34 am PDT #9914 of 29787

Oh, I am so saddened. I just found out this morning that a great guy and former colleague died last night. No details. Today was his last week at work, as he was being let go. He is someone I would not at all have been surprised to be working with again somewhere down the road, and that would have been delightful. Heartbreaking for his family and friends. He was also a least a decade younger than I am. Wrong on all the levels, whatever the details may be.


Laura - Oct 14, 2021 9:13:17 am PDT #9915 of 29787
Our wings are not tired.

That is so sad, I am sorry to hear of this loss.


-t - Oct 14, 2021 9:45:53 am PDT #9916 of 29787
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, JenP, how sad. I'm sorry.


JenP - Oct 14, 2021 9:58:27 am PDT #9917 of 29787

Thanks, -t and Laura.


-t - Oct 14, 2021 10:31:49 am PDT #9918 of 29787
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Matt, megan, Cashmere - sorry to have missed your actual birthday, but I hope today is good!


shrift - Oct 14, 2021 10:45:42 am PDT #9919 of 29787
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Oh, that's rough, JenP.

I literally have no idea. I want to be able to walk into a new stylist and, rather than a pic from a magazine, hand them some notes and say, "do this."

I hear that. I'm only seeing this stylist for the second time, as the stylist I've had since I moved to San Francisco is in the wind. Instead of taking pictures from a magazine, I brought reference photos of my own hair last time, and new stylist said that actually was more helpful.

Mostly I just need to decide if I want to go with a taper cut like usual or do something dramatique.

I am sorry to have laughed at that. That was just plain cruel.

You absolutely should have laughed at that. It was a sad trombone moment.


JenP - Oct 14, 2021 10:47:36 am PDT #9920 of 29787

In cometely light news, I found some Fall clothes I liked at Kohl's today when I made an Amazon return. So I bought them.

Of course, it's 80 degrees here today, so I'm not wearing any of them right now.

ETA: Thanks, shrift.


EpicTangent - Oct 14, 2021 11:20:09 am PDT #9921 of 29787
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

That sounds like a lovely birthday, Matt.

All the leaves are brown, and the sky is grey. Going to take a ride to where my son lives about 45 minutes away.

Who else heard the Mamas & the Papas sing this? Just me?

So sorry, JenP.

I brought reference photos of my own hair last time, and new stylist said that actually was more helpful.

Noted! I'll try to remember to take a selfie next Good Hair day.

Of course, it's 80 degrees here today,

There was a guy from DC at the Con I was at this weekend. I was chatting with him & talking about how hot & humid DC was on my bday and he just kept saying, "people forget DC was built on a swamp."


Dana - Oct 14, 2021 11:29:30 am PDT #9922 of 29787
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Who else heard the Mamas & the Papas sing this? Just me?

I was trying to fit the rest of the post into the rest of the song.


EpicTangent - Oct 14, 2021 11:39:20 am PDT #9923 of 29787
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

The meter is a bit off, but the Mamas & Papas in my head make it work.