Mal: Gotta say, doctor, your talent for alienatin' folk is near miraculous. Simon: Yes, I'm very proud.

'Safe'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Dec 12, 2020 8:44:53 am PST #971 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Sorry, ita long ago conditioned me against clicking links someone is too eager to share! Not gunna! gestures to ward off evil eye... or other evil body part

Health~ma to you, hippocampus!


Kate P. - Dec 12, 2020 8:59:32 am PST #972 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

That is incredible, Cindy! Such a great story.


JZ - Dec 12, 2020 9:14:06 am PST #973 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

TOTORO! Bless.


Volans - Dec 12, 2020 9:14:24 am PST #974 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Cindy, I just saw that on Twitter and started weeping in my car. (Matt, it's not an ita link)

I just wrote a long post here, but it should really be a blog post instead. Short version: Our friends asked us to introduce our god-daughter to D&D to help get us all through the quarantine (and help shore up online edu) and it's been great. Her little brother, our godson, "plays" also, although he's not quite ready to fully play. I think it's wonderful that it's socially acceptable now, but I also know it still isn't accepted by the MAGA world.


sj - Dec 12, 2020 9:16:28 am PST #975 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Do people remember me talking about my nephew D ages ago? We’ll he just graduated from college cum laude with a BS in applied mathematics!


Topic!Cindy - Dec 12, 2020 9:32:09 am PST #976 of 30000
What is even happening?

Sorry, ita long ago conditioned me against clicking links someone is too eager to share! Not gunna! gestures to ward off evil eye... or other evil body part

Matt, I swear to you on my dog's life that it is wholesome, sweet, and life affirming.


Topic!Cindy - Dec 12, 2020 9:32:38 am PST #977 of 30000
What is even happening?

Do people remember me talking about my nephew D ages ago? We’ll he just graduated from college cum laude with a BS in applied mathematics!

Woo hoo, sj!


JenP - Dec 12, 2020 9:34:44 am PST #978 of 30000

Do people remember me talking about my nephew D ages ago? We’ll he just graduated from college cum laude with a BS in applied mathematics!

Super impressive for a regular aged college grad, but he's, what? Maybe ten? Way to go, kiddo!


Sue - Dec 12, 2020 10:02:38 am PST #979 of 30000
hip deep in pie

health~ma hippocampus

No ornaments on the tree yet, but I'm happy just to look at our joint light-stringing for a while first.

Every time we decorated the tree, once the lights we on, my mom would always say, "It's perfect like this. It doesn't need another thing." And now every time, I decorate a tree, I take a little pause when the lights are on, and hear her say it in my heart. Speaking of grief.


Volans - Dec 12, 2020 10:34:44 am PST #980 of 30000
move out and draw fire

I read something recently about how cultural pressure to pack the dead away and not feel them in your life is a fairly recent and fairly American thing (and also not entirely healthy, as the people and creatures and places you grieve for are what made you you).

I think grief is good, even though it feels bad, because it's a reminder of who we are and where we came from and what we value...and that's exactly why it hits at weird times.

Signed, once had to pull over when La Isla Bonita came on the radio and unlocked grief I didn't know I had in me for a dead friend and I still have no idea why that song