You know, I've saved lives. Dozens. Maybe hundreds. I reattached a girl's leg. Her whole leg. She named her hamster after me. I got a hamster. He drops a box of money, he gets a town.

Simon ,'Jaynestown'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Volans - Dec 10, 2020 1:08:59 pm PST #920 of 30000
move out and draw fire

I love how many of us are in tech docs.

When I met you all I was a tech writer!

Shir, I meant to say earlier, I'm sorry you are having to deal with that. One of my long-time meatspace friends has succumbed to paranoia and refuses to get treatment (part of the pathology) and it's been hell on all her relations.


Shir - Dec 10, 2020 1:09:32 pm PST #921 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

bourbon chocolate pecan pie is the bestest best

I will need to go and hunt down one. It sounds wonderful.

And thanks, people. I mostly wrote here because my heart was heavy after listening to him and trying to have a conversation with him, but I'm used to it (and it is hard and heartbreaking, every time). It's easier when I'm not there and not having to go through conversations that have very little to do with reality. But I found that living my life away from this is the best antidote. Emphasis on living - I learned so much on how to live by looking at my parents, and choosing another path. One with friends, and hobbies, and a life, and trusting people, and have meaningful conversations, and speaking my mind and expectations (well, still working on the latter).

Oh, and Happy Hanukkah!


Susan W. - Dec 10, 2020 1:16:00 pm PST #922 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

And how should we pronounce "pecan," Susan?

I say pik-AHN, but I'm becoming somewhat less prescriptivist about such things in my old age.


-t - Dec 10, 2020 1:18:45 pm PST #923 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, Shir. That sounds so hard. Much love to you

Edited to add - and Happy Hannukah! I keep forgetting


JenP - Dec 10, 2020 1:21:24 pm PST #924 of 30000

How did the brownies turn out, Cindy?


Sheryl - Dec 10, 2020 1:41:14 pm PST #925 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Another day, another mid-class meltdown from Mr. S. sigh....First couple of classes were ok, and the afternoon classes went alright, but inbetween...yikes.

This week off has not been terribly restful for me.


Atropa - Dec 10, 2020 1:45:12 pm PST #926 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I just watched the worst LE product launch I've ever seen happen in real time. Hype a product set with a legendarily feral and large fan base, don't put it on the home or what's new page, don't tell people they'll have to use a specific search term to find the product page, and have it sell out in 5 min.? Your project managers are a disaster.

While I'm Really Angry about not getting the thing I wanted (Pete said he could feel my rage from the other room), I feel sorry for whoever has to handle their social media accounts. Which have said NOTHING in response to this.


dcp - Dec 10, 2020 1:45:18 pm PST #927 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

how should we pronounce "pecan,"

You didn't ask me, but I'm going to say it anyway: p'KAAAAAN!!!


Topic!Cindy - Dec 10, 2020 3:05:10 pm PST #928 of 30000
What is even happening?

How did the brownies turn out, Cindy?

Like something a thin Bryn Mawr graduate, whose father was a Connecticut doctor, would bake and call "brownies."


JenP - Dec 10, 2020 3:05:56 pm PST #929 of 30000

Like something a thin Bryn Mawr graduate, whose father was a Connecticut doctor, would bake and call "brownies."

Ha! Not going to try them, then, check.