Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Jul 15, 2021 3:20:02 pm PDT #7872 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I hope it passes quickly with more rest, msbelle.

-t, is refinancing your mortgage an option? With the current interest rates being so low that could help lower your monthly chunk.


Laura - Jul 15, 2021 3:21:20 pm PDT #7873 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Also, I am totally in favor of chocolate ice cream with mint chips or mint ice cream with chocolate chips, but I don't think I want to try mac n cheese ice cream.


-t - Jul 15, 2021 3:41:59 pm PDT #7874 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I refinanced in 2013, it feels a little silly to do it again. But maybe I should think about it.


Steph L. - Jul 15, 2021 3:52:50 pm PDT #7875 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I refinanced in 2013, it feels a little silly to do it again. But maybe I should think about it.

It's not silly if it gives you some wiggle room in your budget.


sumi - Jul 15, 2021 3:55:41 pm PDT #7876 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

I am with Laura regarding ice cream flavors.

I wonder who thought what we needed is Mac n cheese ice cream - it’s comfort food gone wrong.


Dana - Jul 15, 2021 3:58:36 pm PDT #7877 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

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amych - Jul 15, 2021 4:01:40 pm PDT #7878 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

If you can, -t, do it. Rates are ridiculously lower than they were in the mid-teens. And lowering your payment will give you a lovely bit of breathing room in the monthly budget. (And if you can structure it to cash out some equity and that would allow you to pay off other higher-interest things, you should at least look at the numbers. But at the least, a better payment will be a big relief.)


-t - Jul 15, 2021 4:18:58 pm PDT #7879 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

OK, I'll check into it. I thought I was just whining and y'all come along with the practical advice.

I hope there is not actually macaroni in the mac & cheese ice cream.


amych - Jul 15, 2021 4:21:14 pm PDT #7880 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I hope there is not actually macaroni in the mac & cheese ice cream.

<shudder>


Sheryl - Jul 15, 2021 4:51:15 pm PDT #7881 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Better not let Mr. S know about the mac-n-cheese ice cream. He'd eat mac-n-cheese every day if he could.(He likes lots of things that are carbs and cheese- pizza, grilled cheese, ravioli)