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-t - Jul 15, 2021 3:07:48 pm PDT #7870 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I could maybe get cheaper internet and get rid of DirecTV but I have kind of tried and it's a lot of effort and wouldn't make much of a dent so I don't want to. Everything else is pretty fixed. I actually paid off 4 credit cards earlier this year with a combination of stimulus money and a gift from my mother, and I was all excited because that meant another $175 disposable without those minimum payments but then my mortgage payment went up $150/month (escrow, I assume for insurance) so that was discouraging. It's not unworkable, I can live with it, I just would be happier if I thought this was temporary.

I hope you feel better soon, msbelle, that sounds miserable. I hate those on and off not really SICK sick but definitely not well things


msbelle - Jul 15, 2021 3:11:36 pm PDT #7871 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I was wrong, I do have a baby fever. 100.9, so 3 degrees for me. I guess Tylenol and bed.


Laura - Jul 15, 2021 3:20:02 pm PDT #7872 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I hope it passes quickly with more rest, msbelle.

-t, is refinancing your mortgage an option? With the current interest rates being so low that could help lower your monthly chunk.


Laura - Jul 15, 2021 3:21:20 pm PDT #7873 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Also, I am totally in favor of chocolate ice cream with mint chips or mint ice cream with chocolate chips, but I don't think I want to try mac n cheese ice cream.


-t - Jul 15, 2021 3:41:59 pm PDT #7874 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I refinanced in 2013, it feels a little silly to do it again. But maybe I should think about it.


Steph L. - Jul 15, 2021 3:52:50 pm PDT #7875 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I refinanced in 2013, it feels a little silly to do it again. But maybe I should think about it.

It's not silly if it gives you some wiggle room in your budget.


sumi - Jul 15, 2021 3:55:41 pm PDT #7876 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

I am with Laura regarding ice cream flavors.

I wonder who thought what we needed is Mac n cheese ice cream - it’s comfort food gone wrong.


Dana - Jul 15, 2021 3:58:36 pm PDT #7877 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

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amych - Jul 15, 2021 4:01:40 pm PDT #7878 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

If you can, -t, do it. Rates are ridiculously lower than they were in the mid-teens. And lowering your payment will give you a lovely bit of breathing room in the monthly budget. (And if you can structure it to cash out some equity and that would allow you to pay off other higher-interest things, you should at least look at the numbers. But at the least, a better payment will be a big relief.)


-t - Jul 15, 2021 4:18:58 pm PDT #7879 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

OK, I'll check into it. I thought I was just whining and y'all come along with the practical advice.

I hope there is not actually macaroni in the mac & cheese ice cream.