It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


EpicTangent - Jun 29, 2021 10:06:34 am PDT #7384 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

If it goes through as currently outlined I'll be in the office 2 days a week, wfh 3 starting next week

I would LOVE this plan! We've been 3 days in office/2 WFH since early May, and I thought that was what we were going forward with. Then a couple weeks ago they announced we were just coming back. I objected, strenuously, but they only pay lip service to employee engagement and empowerment around here. My immediate supervisor says that it's only temporarily this rigid, 'cuz we have a lot of new people (because people keep leaving - huh, wonder why?), and they want them to know who we are, that in a couple/few months we can start working more flexibly again. As I told him (on this topic & others), I'll believe it when I see it.

And for those of you wondering - I am low-key looking for something else, but between the fact that I've been here so long I have 4 weeks of vacation, and the fact that with my IBS/UC/whatever-the-hell-it-is I take rather more sick days than the average which I assume would be harder to get away with in a new place, a new job would have to be pretty amazing to get me to change at this stage of the game.


-t - Jun 29, 2021 10:08:33 am PDT #7385 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Congrats, Gud!

I never think of my car having air conditioning when I am melting in my bedroom. Hm. OTOH, usually I'm at the point of thinking clothes are a terrible idea by the time I am thinking about potential cooling off options so lying in front of the fan always wins over anything involving getting dressed.

We have a "core" in office day of Tuesday so people can schedule meetings with some confidence that everyone will be there, and I keep thinking about how densely we will be packed but I don't know what the social distancing protocols are really going to be. I know it's masks indoors unless vaccinated, and the "return to work" FAQ mentions social distancing but not with any distances or such. I'm actually at the end of a row and there's no one sitting the opposite side of the wall that I face, so I've only got the one person who might be within 6 feet of me and we have a barrier between us and we'll be masked and/or vaccinated so probably pretty safe regardless. Just feels weird after thinking about that as such a priority for so long.


-t - Jun 29, 2021 10:11:12 am PDT #7386 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You can negotiate for more vacation time when you take a new job, Epic. I mean, it's not a foregone conclusion that you would lose that by changing jobs.


meara - Jun 29, 2021 10:12:36 am PDT #7387 of 30000

Congrats Gud!!

It is supposed to be warm (90) again here today but nothing like the past few days, plus it actually cooled off overnight (thank god) so I’m sitting outside with my computer because it’s only 71 right now. Wish I could be up in my office with both screens but until then, at least I’m comfortable!!


DavidS - Jun 29, 2021 10:14:30 am PDT #7388 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Feeling anxious, but also kinda excited about it.

I'm excited for you too! Your hard work and skills are recognized and rewarded.


Jesse - Jun 29, 2021 10:27:22 am PDT #7389 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Wish I could be up in my office with both screens but until then, at least I’m comfortable!!

Yay! I was so pissed when I went for my walk at 7 this morning and it was already 86 here.


JenP - Jun 29, 2021 10:35:17 am PDT #7390 of 30000

The job offer is pretty great and I just accepted it.

Congratulations! Those are good words to read.

I just took my first Vicodin. They only gave me ten, which is good, because if there is one drug in this world that I'd be in danger of never stopping, it's Vicodin. It just makes me so freaking chill and contented. Pain? Eh, whatevs. (I do not mean to make light of opiate addiction; it's horrible. I just recognize that this is the one that would be my downfall if I had too much access to it.)

In lighter news, I've finally started watching What We Do in the Shadows. Delightful.


EpicTangent - Jun 29, 2021 11:28:49 am PDT #7391 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

In lighter news, I've finally started watching What We Do in the Shadows. Delightful.

Right?!? I actually enjoy the show more than the movie, I think. Just a bit lighter. Though I *am* afraid I'm going to slip and say, "Fucking Guy," out loud at work one of these days.

Because I don't think I said it before, Congratulations, Gud! Hope the new guys appreciate you like you deserve!


Steph L. - Jun 29, 2021 12:09:58 pm PDT #7392 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

In lighter news, I've finally started watching What We Do in the Shadows. Delightful.

It's so great!


Laura - Jun 29, 2021 12:16:05 pm PDT #7393 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Continuing to send cool thoughts to all the A/C deprived Buffistas.

I did a site visit today in Sonoma County and GOT A TICK IN MY HAIR!!!! So upset.

Awful! I worry about them so when I go north. Ick Ick Ick

"We don't actually care what's better for you, we like butts in seats!"

Yeah, when I do have to go to an office I am at the point where I debate what is reasonable outside clothing.

The job offer is pretty great and I just accepted it.

Woot! That sounds quite exciting.

I was scheduled for jury duty today and am bummed that it was cancelled for my group.

A break from work to administer justice would be good.

It just makes me so freaking chill and contented. Pain? Eh, whatevs.

So sad that pretty much every pain killer out there makes me violently ill. So sad.

I've finally started watching What We Do in the Shadows. Delightful.

You guys are killing me. My TBW queue is already way too long.

I'm still up in the air for going north. Ugh. With further complication of taking a cat I took from my sister up to my son and GF. That means 3 cats and a dog to travel. DH and I will split them up, But still complex. Just need to be cloned. So much still to be done here, but I am normally gone by now. Frustrated.