I see your uhhhhhhhhhhh and raise you a gnyeh.

Buffy ,'Potential'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Jun 21, 2021 10:57:29 pm PDT #7138 of 30000

That sounds great Pix! And I’m so glad you’ll get to meet up with drew too!

I have gone straight from “boring COVID lonesome” to “I have something every night of the week, three house guests for the weekend, am going to a wedding Friday, hosting brunch Saturday, an evening part Saturday, and have FOUR invites between 11am and 3pm on Sunday”. It’s a bit much even for me, mostly because work is continuing to stress me out and kick my ass, and I don’t know how I’m going to do all of it! But I don’t want to cancel anything and know once it’s happening I’ll enjoy it. Meanwhile I am up past my bedtime, unable to sleep even though I was exhausted all day, and Wishing I had AC because it is going to be hot all week here. It wasn’t so bad today in my house but it’s still about 78 in my room and that’s too warm.


Calli - Jun 22, 2021 3:51:34 am PDT #7139 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad things are looking up, Pix.

Work is challenging and frequently annoying. But I have an application in with my sister’s alma mater up in MI, so at least I feel like I’m trying to change things. We’ll see how that goes.


Laura - Jun 22, 2021 4:33:52 am PDT #7140 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

That is such an encouraging update, Pix. So happy that meeting up with Drew is happening.

Oh, social meara! Exhausting but a super change.

~ma on the application, Calli.

Trying to make shift to NY plans for summer and it's complicated. Most likely it will happen quickly when the ducks get lined up.


lisah - Jun 22, 2021 6:30:57 am PDT #7141 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

That's good to hear, Pix.


JenP - Jun 22, 2021 7:10:27 am PDT #7142 of 30000

Good to hear some some things are breaking in the right direction, Pix - glad you can get to Montana for a bit.

Good luck, Calli! Would that be moving to a whole new place, or have you ever lived there before?

Meara, I have two dinners downtown this week and I feel like a freaking social butterfly. I bow to your social calendaring!


Topic!Cindy - Jun 22, 2021 12:30:06 pm PDT #7143 of 30000
What is even happening?

Wow, Drew and Kristin, you're doing a lot of big, emotional things all at once (and traveling great distances to do them). Take good care of yourselves. Drew, I hope your time with your bio family is lovely. Kristin, I'm glad you've made some progress with your dad.


sumi - Jun 22, 2021 12:45:18 pm PDT #7144 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

What Cindy said: you guys are doing a lot - a big roller coaster of emotions.

So I am reading Heroine Complex and am wondering if the Michelle Yeoh movie I Heroic Trio that is pivotal for the main character is streaming anywhere? I’ve never seen it & it sounds like fun.


Dana - Jun 22, 2021 1:32:39 pm PDT #7145 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Good news, Pix.


Atropa - Jun 22, 2021 2:21:46 pm PDT #7146 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

That's really good to hear, Kristin. And I'm really excited that Drew gets to spend time with his bio-family.


shrift - Jun 22, 2021 2:23:26 pm PDT #7147 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Glad to hear things are trending up, Kristin! And I'm glad you'll be able to be with Drew when he meets his bio family. Also, glad to hear business is picking back up, Drew.

I'm on call for jury duty the week before I'm supposed to fly to Michigan. I'm waffling on whether to postpone, since I think it's unlikely that I'll be picked to serve on a long trial even if my group has to report. And I would hope that nobody would want me to serve as a juror when I have plane tickets to visit my family for the first time in a year and a half.

We now have more guidance on locations and compensation for when we return to the office. In the short term, I think I'll request a transfer to our San Francisco office so I can just commute downtown rather than spend 4-5 hours a day on a shuttle. And longer term, I'll create a spreadsheet to assess relocation now that my role isn't tied to the Bay Area. But just being able to get rid of that godawful commute will be a huge quality of life improvement.