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Tara ,'Get It Done'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

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JenP - Jun 18, 2021 7:06:03 pm PDT #7090 of 30000

All kinds of health -ma your dad's way, Pix. So hard.

Sumi, so glad it went well and that your friends is there for you.


brenda m - Jun 18, 2021 7:32:27 pm PDT #7091 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Sumi, so good to hear.

Pix all the ~ma to you and your Dad.


sumi - Jun 19, 2021 3:27:06 am PDT #7092 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

Thank you all.

I slept for most of the rest of the 18th & am now thinking of actually getting up & having something. I have a slight headache which I am attributing to my completely caffeine less day.

Other pain is all in the underarm where they took sentinal nodes. I was slightly disappointed the the dye turned my pee blue rather than green - but it’s still a pretty amusing side effect.

Edited to add that the massaging sock things at the hospital were amazing.


Laura - Jun 19, 2021 5:28:24 am PDT #7093 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Wishes for quick recovery, sumi. Yes, it doesn't take long to get a caffeine depravation headache. Also, the massaging sock things are amazing!


Laura - Jun 19, 2021 5:29:57 am PDT #7094 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Pix, I am holding you and your father in my heart today. I hope you both can feel the love headed your way.


Laura - Jun 19, 2021 5:45:00 am PDT #7095 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

On the delightful news front, today we celebrate Plei's birthday! I do hope it is a great day filled with love and joy.


Calli - Jun 19, 2021 8:44:08 am PDT #7096 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad the procedure went ok, Sumi.

Pix, travel~ma for you and recovery~ma for your dad.


Pix - Jun 19, 2021 9:09:36 am PDT #7097 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Thanks, all. I haven't slept in 28 hours and am a little incoherent, fair warning. My dad is acting fine today and is desperate to get out of the hospital. He had a TIA (mini-stroke), and it's likely not his first. He's also still having issues with his memory and getting confused, but he refuses to consider anything like moving into assisted living. I'm looking into some kind of home care part time. I don't know. It's all pretty overwhelming. He's not a good patient and gets really bent out of shape when I "lecture" him about things like decent nutrition (he subsists on cookies, mostly), and I'm trying really hard to be grateful for the fact he's still himself and knows me.

Sumi, really glad your lumpectomy went well.


Laura - Jun 19, 2021 9:19:06 am PDT #7098 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

{{Pix}} Parents really hate when you do the role reversal thing on them, and it is no picnic for the kid either! Good to hear that it wasn't more serious. I sincerely hope he agrees to work with you on an acceptable solution going forward.


dcp - Jun 19, 2021 9:54:22 am PDT #7099 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Pix, that is rough. You already know there will not be a quick or easy resolution. Hang in there. Rest when you can. Take care of yourself, too.