I have finesse! I have finesse coming out of my bottom!

Anya ,'Showtime'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Jun 04, 2021 9:26:01 am PDT #6832 of 30000

Happy birthday Dana!!

How is it already June? I still feel like it’s MAYBE may….of 2020


shrift - Jun 04, 2021 11:09:47 am PDT #6833 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Happy birthday, Dana!


Dana - Jun 04, 2021 11:18:15 am PDT #6834 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Thank you, thank you. We went out to a Brazilian steak house for lunch, and I guess I'm not allowed to go right into a meat coma, but it's tempting.


WindSparrow - Jun 04, 2021 12:33:27 pm PDT #6835 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That sounds like a properly indulgent birthday lunch, Dana! Hope the rest of the day is happy for you!

The people you care for are so fortunate, and deserving, to receive your compassionate care.

Laura, thanks.

The thing is, they are just people, they just want to live their lives, go to work, do their stuff, have some fun, have some friends, have some love in their lives. Yes, I care about these folks deeply. And so very yes, this job plays to my strengths and makes my ADHD weaknesses easy to work around. They aren't inspiring, I'm not a hero. We both walk and/or make use of mobility devices. We both talk and/or communicate without words. We both shop. We both sneeze. We both fight fires when the floods roll back.

But anyone who spends as much time singing, dancing, and laughing at work as I do, has a pretty good job.

ETA, I hope my tone here is not overbearing or harsh. I'm trying to be lyrical about the joy of the ordinary here.


Laura - Jun 04, 2021 1:02:55 pm PDT #6836 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

That is beautiful to read, Andi.

Mmmm, Dana. That sounds like a very nice birthday lunch.


Sheryl - Jun 04, 2021 2:31:17 pm PDT #6837 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday Dana!


Dana - Jun 04, 2021 2:41:32 pm PDT #6838 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Food coma happened anyway.


Steph L. - Jun 04, 2021 2:44:09 pm PDT #6839 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Happy Birthday, Dana! I feel like you're entitled to a food coma on your birthday.


amyparker - Jun 04, 2021 3:24:38 pm PDT #6840 of 30000
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

I agree with Steph; if not on your birthday, when is a food coma appropriate? May the rest of your birthday be as enjoyable!

I am celebrating a successful dentist exam and cleaning - no cavities! No periodontal icks! The hygienist didn't cause me pain! - by making syrups for cocktails. As I told Bev at the weekend, cocktails appeal to the part of me that wanted to grow up to be an alchemist, though I am sadly lacking the minion who followed along behind and did the washing up.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jun 04, 2021 4:08:01 pm PDT #6841 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Matt, how's your mom?

Not feeling great and frustrated that the hospital still hasn't called to schedule her surgery.