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Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - May 19, 2021 3:09:44 pm PDT #6588 of 30000
What is even happening?

Has anyone heard from Shir (or Nilly)? I don't think Shir has posted in over a week. The most recent Natter post I see from her is on May 11th, but I'm not on FB and haven't checked other threads.

msbelle, I'm sorry to hear about Mac. I hope you hear from him soon.

I asked him how he was feeling about all the stuff being hauled out of the basement yesterday, and he said "Lighter." Like it's a load off his shoulders to get the basement cleaned out. And I guess it damn near literally is. I was worried about him being upset or stressed about it, so I'm glad it's having a good effect on him.

Teppy, this great. I'm so glad it has gone so well.

Topic!Cindy, is that an internal appeal or an external appeal?

dcp, our insurance is Mass. Blue Cross/Blue Shield (our plan is a PPO). The doctor making the appeal is Christopher's gastro. at a Boston hospital, so I'd guess external — unless that means something else.

The GI's appeal was denied. He then wrote a letter of medical necessity. He hasn't heard back on that, yet.

My husband (we get our insurance through his work) filed his own appeal today. I wrote a letter which we attached, laying out the particulars of the vasculitis, and included two paragraphs on how much C has been through before now. I'm hoping the human processing the appeal remembers we're talking about a person's health, and not just the BC/BS bottom line.


dcp - May 19, 2021 3:29:39 pm PDT #6589 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Topic!Cindy, insent


Sheryl - May 19, 2021 3:39:06 pm PDT #6590 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

To no one's surprise, NIH is keeping the mask mandate in play. (My building also houses the Clinical Center with lots of patients)


Calli - May 19, 2021 3:56:44 pm PDT #6591 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That sounds like one of the better Zoom calls one could have, Hec.

Cindy, that is such BS on the part of the insurance company.

Steph, I’m glad the experience is a good one for Tim.


Topic!Cindy - May 19, 2021 5:32:07 pm PDT #6592 of 30000
What is even happening?

Thanks, dcp. Received.

Thanks, everyone. When the revolution comes, we're putting the insurance companies up against the wall, yeah?


Cass - May 19, 2021 5:34:39 pm PDT #6593 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Damn straight we are.


Laura - May 19, 2021 6:05:12 pm PDT #6594 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Without a doubt. Banks are next up.


Topic!Cindy - May 19, 2021 6:38:40 pm PDT #6595 of 30000
What is even happening?

An old friend of my mom's always said, "Whenever you can take money from a bank or insurance company, it's not stealing."


dcp - May 19, 2021 6:42:11 pm PDT #6596 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

"Some will rob you with a six-gun, some with a fountain pen."

From "Pretty Boy Floyd" by Woodie Guthrie.


Shir - May 20, 2021 12:04:23 am PDT #6597 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

First things first:

Cindy, tons and tons and tons of ~ma for you and your family. I'm sorry you're going through this. msbelle, I'm sorry that Mac is not communicating.

Also, happy belated birthdays and anniversaries.

Has anyone heard from Shir (or Nilly)? I don't think Shir has posted in over a week. The most recent Natter post I see from her is on May 11th, but I'm not on FB and haven't checked other threads.

Thank you. We're... umm, fine? (for some values of fine). Nilly, her kids and her husband are in a safe-ish area. I'm in a bit less safe-ish area, but still an area that is much safer than others (I just sleep in clothing that will allow me to take shelter in the stairwell with other neighbors, if needed. And I'm alert and listening for sirens. And cancelling plans to stay as safe as possible). Nilly and I both have family and friends that are in much more dangerous areas and we are worried about them. I think that seeing all this happening and being able to do so very little about it is the worst part. I do what I can (among other things, I publicly declared that my apartment and the empty room in it are open to anyone who need to get away from a more violent area for a few days), but ceasefire depends on things and people that are out of my control. There's so much mending that needs to be done here, in all sorts of ways. The good news is that there is enough work for anyone who wants to do something to help in some way. The bad news is that it's heartbreaking and beyond frustrating to wait and see the destruction that is being done in our name, knowing that this helps nothing and no one.