And the thing is, I like my evil like I like my men: evil. You know, straight up, black hat, tied to the train tracks, soon my electro-ray will destroy metropolis BAD.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 19, 2021 1:34:19 pm PDT #6582 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

The hoarding folks who came over yesterday treated the mold in the office and hauled a lot of stuff out of the basement. They'll be back tomorrow to haul out the rest of the stuff from the basement and treat the mold there. (I was slightly mistaken on what they were doing to the office -- they were only treating the mold, not hauling stuff out, which I'm disappointed about. That said, Tim has already gotten a lot of stuff out of the office himself. I told him that I want the office to be usable for him, so we'll keep working on getting stuff out of there together, so help me god.)

I asked him how he was feeling about all the stuff being hauled out of the basement yesterday, and he said "Lighter." Like it's a load off his shoulders to get the basement cleaned out. And I guess it damn near literally is. I was worried about him being upset or stressed about it, so I'm glad it's having a good effect on him.


lisah - May 19, 2021 1:52:09 pm PDT #6583 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

That's a really positive response. Go, Tim!!


DavidS - May 19, 2021 2:00:33 pm PDT #6584 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

and he said "Lighter."

Excellent! That is the way forward.

We just had our umpteenth Zoom call with financial advisors dealing with JZ's dad's estate. Exciting phrases like "early retirement" and "have you been looking at listings to get a sense of the market," and "but what if the return on investment was higher than your anticipated budget" and "traveling business class to Greece" were bandied about.


Dana - May 19, 2021 2:26:12 pm PDT #6585 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I would like to travel business class to Greece. There is no word in that sentence I do not like.


DavidS - May 19, 2021 2:32:51 pm PDT #6586 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I would like to travel business class to Greece. There is no word in that sentence I do not like.

Right?! JZ and Matilda went and stayed with relatives there in summer of 2019, but this time Emmett and I could go too, and we could stay longer (provided we had a guinea pig sitter).

Obviously we're talking about 2022, but still exciting.


JenP - May 19, 2021 2:35:07 pm PDT #6587 of 30000

Well, those are certainly pleasant things to consider. Lovely.


Topic!Cindy - May 19, 2021 3:09:44 pm PDT #6588 of 30000
What is even happening?

Has anyone heard from Shir (or Nilly)? I don't think Shir has posted in over a week. The most recent Natter post I see from her is on May 11th, but I'm not on FB and haven't checked other threads.

msbelle, I'm sorry to hear about Mac. I hope you hear from him soon.

I asked him how he was feeling about all the stuff being hauled out of the basement yesterday, and he said "Lighter." Like it's a load off his shoulders to get the basement cleaned out. And I guess it damn near literally is. I was worried about him being upset or stressed about it, so I'm glad it's having a good effect on him.

Teppy, this great. I'm so glad it has gone so well.

Topic!Cindy, is that an internal appeal or an external appeal?

dcp, our insurance is Mass. Blue Cross/Blue Shield (our plan is a PPO). The doctor making the appeal is Christopher's gastro. at a Boston hospital, so I'd guess external — unless that means something else.

The GI's appeal was denied. He then wrote a letter of medical necessity. He hasn't heard back on that, yet.

My husband (we get our insurance through his work) filed his own appeal today. I wrote a letter which we attached, laying out the particulars of the vasculitis, and included two paragraphs on how much C has been through before now. I'm hoping the human processing the appeal remembers we're talking about a person's health, and not just the BC/BS bottom line.


dcp - May 19, 2021 3:29:39 pm PDT #6589 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Topic!Cindy, insent


Sheryl - May 19, 2021 3:39:06 pm PDT #6590 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

To no one's surprise, NIH is keeping the mask mandate in play. (My building also houses the Clinical Center with lots of patients)


Calli - May 19, 2021 3:56:44 pm PDT #6591 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That sounds like one of the better Zoom calls one could have, Hec.

Cindy, that is such BS on the part of the insurance company.

Steph, I’m glad the experience is a good one for Tim.