I'm a big girl. Just tell me.

Inara ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - May 19, 2021 9:32:12 am PDT #6575 of 30000

It's unconscionable that insurance companies can override medical professionals' orders. I'm sorry this is continuing, Cindy.

msbelle, that's all really crappy. All of it.

Thanks, Beverly!

Most businesses and people are still wearing masks here, and I'm good with that.


meara - May 19, 2021 9:56:41 am PDT #6576 of 30000

I still feel guilty here when not wearing a mask outdoors when the nearest people are down the block! Def still wearing indoors.

Msbelle I hope Mac gets his head on right and comes back with his shit together :( Also that work situation sounds awful.


Laura - May 19, 2021 10:09:48 am PDT #6577 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

When with doctor yesterday I told her my vax status and asked if it was okay to unmask. We had lots to talk about and I was tired and anxious. She was fine with it. Going through corridors and waiting room I masked. Also with grocery store. Not outside anymore. I do carry one in my little walking belt in case I come across masked people to be polite.


Jessica - May 19, 2021 10:17:45 am PDT #6578 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Starbucks in NYC now have entry signs saying masks are optional for vaccinated patrons. Which, given that tourist season is here, I'm not sure is such a smart idea.


Calli - May 19, 2021 10:37:15 am PDT #6579 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

So, two people on my team who've been here 1/5th the time I have just got promoted over me. Talk about signs to update ones resume.


Laura - May 19, 2021 11:00:30 am PDT #6580 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, it sucks that leaving is sometimes the only way forward.


askye - May 19, 2021 12:00:27 pm PDT #6581 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Cindy i hope you can get the insurance company to change their stance.

Msbelle sorry about Mac.

I got an update from Mom. She's coming home..she will stay tonight with a friend and be in NC tomorrow.

My aunt has been extremely difficult and I guess there was some sort of disagreement and my aunt flipped Mom off and mom is done with her.


Steph L. - May 19, 2021 1:34:19 pm PDT #6582 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

The hoarding folks who came over yesterday treated the mold in the office and hauled a lot of stuff out of the basement. They'll be back tomorrow to haul out the rest of the stuff from the basement and treat the mold there. (I was slightly mistaken on what they were doing to the office -- they were only treating the mold, not hauling stuff out, which I'm disappointed about. That said, Tim has already gotten a lot of stuff out of the office himself. I told him that I want the office to be usable for him, so we'll keep working on getting stuff out of there together, so help me god.)

I asked him how he was feeling about all the stuff being hauled out of the basement yesterday, and he said "Lighter." Like it's a load off his shoulders to get the basement cleaned out. And I guess it damn near literally is. I was worried about him being upset or stressed about it, so I'm glad it's having a good effect on him.


lisah - May 19, 2021 1:52:09 pm PDT #6583 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

That's a really positive response. Go, Tim!!


DavidS - May 19, 2021 2:00:33 pm PDT #6584 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

and he said "Lighter."

Excellent! That is the way forward.

We just had our umpteenth Zoom call with financial advisors dealing with JZ's dad's estate. Exciting phrases like "early retirement" and "have you been looking at listings to get a sense of the market," and "but what if the return on investment was higher than your anticipated budget" and "traveling business class to Greece" were bandied about.