We didn't have sex, if that's what you mean. That's all I do now, not have sex.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 6:03:45 pm PDT #6191 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Just goes to show what people said about they've always seen worse!

Well, to be 100% honest, the office is horrible, but it's not like pictures I've seen of hoarding situations. Well, I mean, it's difficult to walk in the room, and there are piles and piles of stuff, along with way too many shipping boxes (Amazon, etc) that he kept because "it's a good box!"* Is there a hoarding continuum? The office would be, like, Hoarding 101: Intro to Hoarding With Optional Mold Lab Credit.

*(I, too, know the appeal of a good box. But there are always other boxes, my dude.)


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 6:06:53 pm PDT #6192 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

(I do have photographic evidence of the hoard in the office, because I have in fact taken pictures of the office before he even started his cursory removal of stuff, and I will never, ever, EVER show them to anyone in my life.)


dcp - May 07, 2021 6:09:29 pm PDT #6193 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

kept because "it's a good box!"

I have that problem, too.


Matt the Bruins fan - May 07, 2021 6:10:58 pm PDT #6194 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Oh Sumi, I'm sorry. All the health~ma to you.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 6:16:18 pm PDT #6195 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

kept because "it's a good box!"

I have that problem, too.

Plus we have a cat, so the living room looks like the UPS store or something with his empty boxes and pile of brown packing paper that he loves more than toys we spent actual money for.

So I get the appeal of a good box.


askye - May 07, 2021 7:24:24 pm PDT #6196 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

sumi I'm sorry to you have cancer. I hope the doctors are able to treat it quickly and relatively well.

I have a grandmother and an aunt who had breast cancer. My grandmother will be 101 this year! she had breast cancer in the 90s and about the same time my Aunt Wanda had breast cancer and she's in her 80s. both them had relatively good experiences with chemo


Dana - May 07, 2021 7:24:29 pm PDT #6197 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

We have so many Amazon boxes.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 7:29:17 pm PDT #6198 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

We have so many Amazon boxes.

My cat would like to talk to you.


DavidS - May 07, 2021 7:30:43 pm PDT #6199 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Everybody, listen to me. Throw out all the boxes except one. That's all you need.

Break them down and toss them into recycling.

If you really need a box, the dollar you spend on it will be worth the free space and declutter.

Also, free boxes at USPS for priority mail anyway.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 7:36:27 pm PDT #6200 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Everybody, listen to me. Throw out all the boxes except one. That's all you need.

My cat would like to talk to you, also. You should run.