I'm sorry, dad. You know I would never have tried to save River's life if I had known there was a dinner party at risk.

Simon ,'Safe'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 6:16:18 pm PDT #6195 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

kept because "it's a good box!"

I have that problem, too.

Plus we have a cat, so the living room looks like the UPS store or something with his empty boxes and pile of brown packing paper that he loves more than toys we spent actual money for.

So I get the appeal of a good box.


askye - May 07, 2021 7:24:24 pm PDT #6196 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

sumi I'm sorry to you have cancer. I hope the doctors are able to treat it quickly and relatively well.

I have a grandmother and an aunt who had breast cancer. My grandmother will be 101 this year! she had breast cancer in the 90s and about the same time my Aunt Wanda had breast cancer and she's in her 80s. both them had relatively good experiences with chemo


Dana - May 07, 2021 7:24:29 pm PDT #6197 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

We have so many Amazon boxes.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 7:29:17 pm PDT #6198 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

We have so many Amazon boxes.

My cat would like to talk to you.


DavidS - May 07, 2021 7:30:43 pm PDT #6199 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Everybody, listen to me. Throw out all the boxes except one. That's all you need.

Break them down and toss them into recycling.

If you really need a box, the dollar you spend on it will be worth the free space and declutter.

Also, free boxes at USPS for priority mail anyway.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 7:36:27 pm PDT #6200 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Everybody, listen to me. Throw out all the boxes except one. That's all you need.

My cat would like to talk to you, also. You should run.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 8:19:29 pm PDT #6201 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Okay, I have to correct one previous statement. Curiosity got the better of me, and I stuck my head in the door of the office (it's been closed since the discovery of the mold, to keep the kitty out). And yeah, I totally see why the Cincinnati Hoarding guy said it was in the category of clutter (even if it's "extremely cluttered"): Tim busted his ASS over the past couple of weekends getting stuff out of there.* (I obviously saw him bringing stuff out, but I still didn't get the impact of the office with that much stuff gone until I actually looked in the office.) It's still Maximum Clutter, but so much better than it was. Wow.

*(One of the things he brought out of there was a bundle of something that looked like magazines, but wrapped up in like 10 layers of U-Haul pallet wrap [because of course we have pallet wrap lying around]. I asked him what it was, and he said "Porn that I forgot was even in there." Okay, I asked why it was wrapped up in 10 layers of pallet wrap, and he said "I don't want anyone to go through our trash looking for stuff and find moldy porn and die from it!" He was 100% serious. I told him people who steal porn out of your trash should be aware that it might not be in pristine condition. But that's the kind of person I married: making sure that hypothetical trash porn scavengers don't get Aspergillosis.)


Karl - May 08, 2021 12:38:08 am PDT #6202 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

making sure that hypothetical trash porn scavengers don't get Aspergillosis

Reader, I giggled.


JenP - May 08, 2021 2:36:59 am PDT #6203 of 30000

That's very sweet of him.


Sparky1 - May 08, 2021 5:02:53 am PDT #6204 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Sumi, I'm so sorry about your diagnosis. Hippocampus is married to the The Chemist, and he may be able to help you understand the pharmocological, and your options there, if your treatment plan goes that way. I've volunteered him up to friends and co-workers before, and I know some have taken advantage.