Do I wish I was somebody else right now. Somebody not... married, not madly in love with a beautiful woman who can kill me with her pinkie!

Wash ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - May 07, 2021 12:22:12 pm PDT #6179 of 30000
What is even happening?

Sumi, I am glad you're back. I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis and holding a good thought for you, during your treatment. My friend (a cousin's wife) was just diagnosed. She had surgery yesterday. We're waiting on the pathology reports to find out the particulars of her treatment.

Thanks, Cindy. What a year, eh?

And then some, Karl.

Teppy, you're smart, funny, lovely, compassionate, all around wonderful, and we love you.

You are addressing something that needs addressing (and really soon after realizing the extent of the issue). You rock, and I'm not just saying that because I'm afraid of your superpowers (of which I am afraid).

When my people came, they were so nice! I was a wreck, though.

Sophia, I was just thinking about your journey. Even just in text, I could feel you growing lighter, freer, and more sure of yourself. It must have been hard for you to share it here. I know you did so, at least in part, as an accountability thing, but I think you helped people, too. Having the example of someone else tackling an issue (even if the specifics are different), can be motivating, and you gave that to us.


Dana - May 07, 2021 12:24:35 pm PDT #6180 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Lee is definitely reachable on Twitter. The only thing I have to offer is that my mother and SIL both came through it fine and are clean now.


JenP - May 07, 2021 12:52:33 pm PDT #6181 of 30000

I'm sorry, sumi. Sending all the -ma.


EpicTangent - May 07, 2021 1:28:46 pm PDT #6182 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I'm sorry to hear this Sumi. Easy treatment & speedy recovery~ma. (And Lee is also on FB if you're not a Twitterer).


meara - May 07, 2021 1:47:59 pm PDT #6183 of 30000

Oh no, sumi!! I’m so sorry. I hope you get lots of help and caring from in-person types and not just the many of us through the interweb tubes!


Sheryl - May 07, 2021 2:24:46 pm PDT #6184 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry, sumi.


aurelia - May 07, 2021 5:16:24 pm PDT #6185 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Oh, sumi, I'm sorry. Sending much health~ma and positive vibes your direction.


DavidS - May 07, 2021 5:38:35 pm PDT #6186 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Take care of yourself, sumi! All the boob-ma!


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 5:44:38 pm PDT #6187 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

sumi, I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I know a lot of forms of breast cancer have excellent treatment outcomes, so all my good health vibes are coming your way.


Steph L. - May 07, 2021 5:47:28 pm PDT #6188 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

The Cincinnati Hoarding guy came out to check out the scary moldy office, and I was feeling so crappy still after my vaccine shot that I stayed in bed, so I wasn't involved (I really wasn't avoid-y; I have a fever and everything, woo, immune system). Tim said the guy was very nice and that the guy also said he wouldn't even call the office "hoarding," that he would call it "extremely cluttered." And my reaction was basically, where do you draw the line on that one? When does it go from extremely cluttered into hoarding? Literally, I couldn't walk more than 2-3 feet into the room. A rose by any other name, etc.

So they're going to email Tim with an estimate to clean out the office and treat the mold, and to basically get rid of 95% of the stuff in our horrific basement and treat whatever mold they find there (it's an unfinished basement that's totally underground; it's going to have mold).

After all that happens, then we need a cleaning service to deep-clean the house, and we go from there. Though we still have too much clutter in the rest of the house, and that's going to be a problem if we don't come up with a plan for it. (Which, I guess, that plan should basically be: Get Rid Of 50% Of Your Shit.)