Definitely give yourself time to feel stunned and be good to yourself.
May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.
Mal ,'Bushwhacked'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Laura - May 07, 2021 11:21:14 am PDT #6176 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
sumi - May 07, 2021 11:35:37 am PDT #6177 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!
I am looking back & celebrating last week as the last week in a long time that I will have without medical appointments.
And in other news: I really enjoyed this year’s Kentucky Derby & American Pharoah has entered the Racing Hall of Fame!
-t - May 07, 2021 12:13:20 pm PDT #6178 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{sumi}}}
Topic!Cindy - May 07, 2021 12:22:12 pm PDT #6179 of 30000
What is even happening?
Sumi, I am glad you're back. I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis and holding a good thought for you, during your treatment. My friend (a cousin's wife) was just diagnosed. She had surgery yesterday. We're waiting on the pathology reports to find out the particulars of her treatment.
Thanks, Cindy. What a year, eh?
And then some, Karl.
Teppy, you're smart, funny, lovely, compassionate, all around wonderful, and we love you.
You are addressing something that needs addressing (and really soon after realizing the extent of the issue). You rock, and I'm not just saying that because I'm afraid of your superpowers (of which I am afraid).
When my people came, they were so nice! I was a wreck, though.
Sophia, I was just thinking about your journey. Even just in text, I could feel you growing lighter, freer, and more sure of yourself. It must have been hard for you to share it here. I know you did so, at least in part, as an accountability thing, but I think you helped people, too. Having the example of someone else tackling an issue (even if the specifics are different), can be motivating, and you gave that to us.
Dana - May 07, 2021 12:24:35 pm PDT #6180 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."
Lee is definitely reachable on Twitter. The only thing I have to offer is that my mother and SIL both came through it fine and are clean now.
JenP - May 07, 2021 12:52:33 pm PDT #6181 of 30000
I'm sorry, sumi. Sending all the -ma.
EpicTangent - May 07, 2021 1:28:46 pm PDT #6182 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
I'm sorry to hear this Sumi. Easy treatment & speedy recovery~ma. (And Lee is also on FB if you're not a Twitterer).
meara - May 07, 2021 1:47:59 pm PDT #6183 of 30000
Oh no, sumi!! I’m so sorry. I hope you get lots of help and caring from in-person types and not just the many of us through the interweb tubes!
Sheryl - May 07, 2021 2:24:46 pm PDT #6184 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
I'm sorry, sumi.
aurelia - May 07, 2021 5:16:24 pm PDT #6185 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Oh, sumi, I'm sorry. Sending much health~ma and positive vibes your direction.