I said I'm sorry. I've made mistakes, but fear was never one of them.

Lilah ,'Conviction (1)'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Dec 03, 2020 6:01:33 pm PST #614 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

DH finished setting up the pool table again, which has been in storage for a very long time. This will help him with his social isolation. His brother shoots with him and he has already had Covid, along with his wife and MIL. The MIL is in long term care now and although she recovered she is not doing well as it seems to have accelerated her dementia quote profoundly. Anyway, it will be nice to have him coming by often to visit and play.


DavidS - Dec 03, 2020 6:08:35 pm PST #615 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

DH finished setting up the pool table again, which has been in storage for a very long time. This will help him with his social isolation. His brother shoots with him and he has already had Covid, along with his wife and MIL.

That sounds like a great work-around to get through the winter.


NoiseDesign - Dec 04, 2020 12:55:30 am PST #616 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

It's necessary but it's going to drive so many businesses under if they're shut in the run up to xmas.

At this point so many small businesses in impacted industries are running on fumes. Christmas isn't going to save them it might just delay it by a few weeks. The gov't needs to not ignore the need for fiscal support for small business. The lack of support needed to keep businesses closed for public health is criminal. It's directly responsible for Covid spread and death. Congress is culpable in this.

Yes, I might be angry. I'm also just worn out. Running a small business through this is hell.


Shir - Dec 04, 2020 1:50:06 am PST #617 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oatmeal: it's just the morning stress and dread (hiya 2020!), but a friend's cousin got terrible health news yesterday night after an emergency open heart op (she's only 20), and I got little left in me after spending too much time at home this week without a break for nice/relaxing things on the one hand, but also have a deadline in 8 hours so I can't go for a long walk and do everything I need to do today. (Deadline itself won't take long to write, I just need to figure out what to write about first. Lovely prof. who read my first topic suggestion went "yeah, you can write on that topic, but you're smarter than this. Wait till class X, get familiar with more economic theories, and we'll circle back to get you something more challenging to write about". Class X was this week, so now I need to come up with something smart and challenging).

There will be nice/relaxing things tomorrow, coz weekend. Maybe even a nice relaxing thing today. But I need to get through today first, and I don't want to yell at housemate who did nothing to deserve a housemate with too many deadlines.

/venting

Well, let's get to work.

{{Buffistas}}


Theodosia - Dec 04, 2020 3:16:33 am PST #618 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Hugs all around.

My assisted living has locked down -- a staff member was positive in the testing on Tuesday, so yesterday all the residents got tested. Even though I knew it was coming, given that we well into the second surge locally, I'm still irrationally dismayed.


JenP - Dec 04, 2020 6:25:40 am PST #619 of 30000

I don't think it's irrational, Theo. Negative test ~ma all around.

Good thinking and writing to you, Shir.

ND, I can't only imagine how awful this has been for you as a business owner and employer.


sj - Dec 04, 2020 7:17:38 am PST #620 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I have a evaluation of needs appointment for therapy this morning on Zoom because my new doctor did not respond to my telling her I’m struggling with “find yourself a therapist” instead she had the therapist call me.


sj - Dec 04, 2020 7:18:03 am PST #621 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I’m sorry, Theo. It’s so hard.


sj - Dec 04, 2020 8:43:04 am PST #622 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I just finished the virtual assessment appointment, and I cried a lot. They want me to try to attend a group meeting on Tuesday mornings, and I should hear back about recommendations for a therapist and Psychiatrist within a week.


JenP - Dec 04, 2020 8:47:22 am PST #623 of 30000

I'm glad you got the assessment, and I hope you get recommendations that work for you. By "group" they still mean virtual, right?