Willow: You know what they say. The bigger they are... Anya: The faster they stomp you into nothin'.

'The Killer In Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Apr 30, 2021 4:23:22 pm PDT #6022 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Dad's home

Yay!

...wasn't a heart attack....

Yay!

...collapsed....

Boo! But glad help was immediately at hand, and did the right thing for him.

Collapses are bad in general, but they are worse if they lead to "skeletal related events" (SREs). Men with metastatic prostate cancer don't recover well from SREs. [link]

So tell him, "No more of this collapsing nonsense! Don't fall down! Don't break anything!"

I've come close a couple times. Once in April 2020 when I had a fever as a side effect of a new medication. (Is it ironic that the shot was intended to treat my osteopenia and strengthen my bones?) And once just after Christmas 2020, when chemo caused a blood pressure drop.

Pre-emptive caution is in order. "Just say, 'No!'" doesn't really help when you are already falling down.


Laura - Apr 30, 2021 6:14:08 pm PDT #6023 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yes on the endorsement of pre-emptive caution, alas, we usually don't get careful until we take a fall or two.


amyparker - Apr 30, 2021 6:19:03 pm PDT #6024 of 30000
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

tell him, "No more of this collapsing nonsense! Don't fall down! Don't break anything!"

Yeah, about that . . . .

I might have mentioned here that last year he was on a roof helping with a fellow parishioner's shingles? My very sensible comments along the lines of "Dad, you are 76, you are not well, please supervise from the ground" were not heeded.

Maybe "random blacking out with bonus vomiting and falling down for Unknown Reasons" was sufficiently frightening that this time he'll listen. I can hope.

Thank you, truly.


Gris - May 01, 2021 5:27:48 am PDT #6025 of 30000
Hey. New board.

Not sure if I said earlier but Gris that is both excellent and ducked up that your wife is flying to New Orleans to get a vaccine!! I mean yay that she can, but boo that she needs to? I hope you can get vaccinated soon too and that her trip goes smoothly!!

Yeah. I'm probably gonna go next week. Yay beignets and shots.


Laura - May 01, 2021 7:52:53 am PDT #6026 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay! I'm sorry you have to go so far, but whatever it takes.


Steph L. - May 01, 2021 8:05:17 am PDT #6027 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I made my appointment for my first vaccine! I get jabbed Wednesday with the Moderna vaccine.


Topic!Cindy - May 01, 2021 10:09:58 am PDT #6028 of 30000
What is even happening?

Teppy, welcome to Club Moderna! We're smaller than the Pfizer Pfederation, but our famous members include Dr. Anthony Fauci, Dr. Francis Collins, and a cadre of Buffistas. Lasting side effects of the Moderna vaccine include confidence and relief.

amyparker, I'm glad your dad is doing better. I'm mentally blessing his friends and booting his arse as I type.

Gris, I'm glad your Mrs. has gotten her first shot. I hope you get yours next week.


Laura - May 01, 2021 10:13:03 am PDT #6029 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay Club Moderna! DH is part of the Pfizer team, but I am Moderna.


askye - May 01, 2021 10:30:03 am PDT #6030 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I get my 2nd Moderna shot on Wed, which I have off, but I forgot to ask for Thursday off. Hopefully I will be fine but if I'm not at this point the managers are used to ppl calling out bc od vaccine reactions.


Topic!Cindy - May 01, 2021 10:47:13 am PDT #6031 of 30000
What is even happening?

I'm the only one in my immediate family who got Moderna, Laura. It was nice to see other Buffistas did, too. brenda and I got ours the same day. I think Sheryl and Cass got Moderna, too. I had pfelt pforsaken because my pfriends and pfamily had been Pfizerized.

askye, I felt fluey for a day. Pushing water helped a lot, though. If you start now, your body will be well hydrated in advance (which I did not do -- I'm not great at drinking water when it's cold out). Tylenol managed the worst of the symptoms.