Ah, the pitter patter of tiny feet in huge combat boots. Shut up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Mar 31, 2021 10:40:20 am PDT #5050 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good luck to Matilda! Very glad Parks&Rec corrected her status, that is so frustrating when things like that disrupt all potential for good outcomes.

That's awesome, Toddson. I know I watched Babylon 5 back in the day, perhaps it's time to rewatch. As I recall, I had to hunt around for it on independent over the air channels and got the episodes out of order and probably missed a lot, a bingewatch once would probably be an entirely different experience.

I have goods on an Evergreen ship that does not appear to be stuck anywhere. I wonder how long seeing their vessel names will make me shake my head and laugh at them a little...


Topic!Cindy - Mar 31, 2021 11:00:26 am PDT #5051 of 30000
What is even happening?

Upon reflection, I think I would prefer to work in Conjunction Junction

What's your function?

So there's potential good news on Matilda's summer front.

I'm holding every good thought for Miss Matilda. Enough is enough.


JenP - Mar 31, 2021 11:00:53 am PDT #5052 of 30000

Oh, totally pulling for these good things for Matilda. Yes.

Walkthrough went fine. Carpet was the only issue, which, fair. They prorate the replacement cost against a five-year cycle; we were there for 2.5 years. DP is adamant that he's not paying a penny over the original $350 deposit, because we've been paying a $100 per month pet fee for two years, so what is that for if not replacement cost? Makes sense to me, but I will leave any such arguing to him. I am DONE with that whole chapter, phew.

I am delighted by our new place. The light alone is worth the move. There's also a screened-in porch which as been so cool! It wasn't even particularly in my "win" column for the place, but I'm so happy with it. I would love to commission Allyson to come make it cute, but a) I can't afford that, b) pandemic, c) don't think she hires out her decorating talents, and d) well, I'm sure there's a "d", but if anyone could make the somewhat drab porch into a lovely oasis, it would be Allyson. Ah, well.


Toddson - Mar 31, 2021 11:02:40 am PDT #5053 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

One good thing about my move was that the new owners of my old apartment building are going to be doing a complete renovation ... which meant that I didn't have to do a clean-up and fix-up when I moved out.


JenP - Mar 31, 2021 11:05:38 am PDT #5054 of 30000

That is nice, Toddson. They had a three-tiered cleaning option if we wanted to use their crew, and I did go with the "basic" on that. Obviously didn't add the carpet cleaning, and I forget what the third thing was for, but I didn't choose it. Totally worth it to avoid them nickle and diming me on minor cleaning issues.


Sophia Brooks - Mar 31, 2021 12:03:44 pm PDT #5055 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Yay JenP on the move.

Good Luck Matilda!

I have lost a jar of mayonaisse. How do I do this? I swear I had an unopened jar of mayonaisse which is why I did not instacart it, but instacarted tuna for tuna salad, eggs for egg salad and ham and cheese. Now no mayonaisse.


lisah - Mar 31, 2021 12:44:26 pm PDT #5056 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

If you have oil you can make mayo.


Toddson - Mar 31, 2021 12:59:18 pm PDT #5057 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Oil, eggs and something to give it a little kick - mustard or lemon juice (I have made mayonnaise from scratch and it's a hassle, since it will easily go wrong). Most annoying to be missing one basic part of what you want to make.


Toddson - Mar 31, 2021 1:03:38 pm PDT #5058 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

On the way home yesterday evening I saw tourists. Quite a few on their worst behavior - no masks, zooming (and NOT Zooming) down the sidewalk faster than is safe, ambling across the street against the light. Why? the Cherry Blossom Festival is in low gear, where it's doing anything, the Park Service is restricting access to the Tidal Basin, a lot of restaurants are only providing outside dining (streateries). However, the Bloom Cam is live (not much to see today - it's gray and raining, but there are cherry blossoms).


Hil R. - Mar 31, 2021 1:16:53 pm PDT #5059 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I watched my aunt's funeral over the livestream this morning. It was pretty short -- since it's still Passover, a lot of the usual funeral and mourning rituals can't be done. So a very short service -- the rebbe said a few blessings, and then my uncle and cousin each gave a short speech, and then the rebbe said another couple blessings, and then they went to the cemetery, and they couldn't livestream the cemetery part of the service. Because of Covid, the only people who could be there were my uncle and cousin and cousin's girlfriend, and my parents and sister, and the rebbe.

Then I took a nap, and then I had to teach a class, because I hadn't been able to find anyone to cover it. It didn't go great, but I got through it. I only almost cried once.

I think I might contact the person who runs the Jewish community that I'm part of here, and see if she has any suggestions for things I can do locally. In non-Covid times, I'd go to synagogue and say Kaddish for her as soon as Passover was over, but I can't do that now, and I know there are synagogues having services online, but that's not the same.