Nothing worse than a monster who thinks he's right with God.

Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Hil R. - Mar 31, 2021 1:16:53 pm PDT #5059 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I watched my aunt's funeral over the livestream this morning. It was pretty short -- since it's still Passover, a lot of the usual funeral and mourning rituals can't be done. So a very short service -- the rebbe said a few blessings, and then my uncle and cousin each gave a short speech, and then the rebbe said another couple blessings, and then they went to the cemetery, and they couldn't livestream the cemetery part of the service. Because of Covid, the only people who could be there were my uncle and cousin and cousin's girlfriend, and my parents and sister, and the rebbe.

Then I took a nap, and then I had to teach a class, because I hadn't been able to find anyone to cover it. It didn't go great, but I got through it. I only almost cried once.

I think I might contact the person who runs the Jewish community that I'm part of here, and see if she has any suggestions for things I can do locally. In non-Covid times, I'd go to synagogue and say Kaddish for her as soon as Passover was over, but I can't do that now, and I know there are synagogues having services online, but that's not the same.


Sheryl - Mar 31, 2021 2:18:02 pm PDT #5060 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Raining here.


JenP - Mar 31, 2021 2:39:16 pm PDT #5061 of 30000

I'm sorry, Hil. It must be so hard not to be with your family as you all mourn your aunt.


Theodosia - Mar 31, 2021 3:17:36 pm PDT #5062 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

R got her first vax shot today! I think I'm more excited than she is.


Calli - Mar 31, 2021 3:36:45 pm PDT #5063 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm sorry, Hil. I. hope you can find something local to do to remember your aunt.

Hec, I have my fingers crossed that something comes through for Matilda.

I'm having a socially distanced Easter brunch with a couple of friends. The weather should be sunny and in the 70s, so we can sit on my porch and sidewalk and chat, while being far enough away for safety. We've all had our first shots, but I'm waiting until two weeks after our second before doing anything inside. Luckily, spring in NC makes it pretty nice to hang out outside most days.


Laura - Mar 31, 2021 3:39:37 pm PDT #5064 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

At my sister's house today. Took her for her 2nd shot today. Not as easy as my side. We were there hours. But done!

I'm sorry, Hil. It is so much harder at a distance.

Sending ~ma for all things to turn Matilda's way.

Many wishes for happiness in your new digs, JenP!


sj - Mar 31, 2021 3:44:29 pm PDT #5065 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Congratulations on your new place, JenP!


Sophia Brooks - Mar 31, 2021 4:01:50 pm PDT #5066 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I am a little ascared to try and make Mayo! But maybe tomorrow with my stick blender.

Hil, I hope your local group can help. It seems so hard to be so far away.


JenP - Mar 31, 2021 4:18:33 pm PDT #5067 of 30000

Thanks, all!

Sophia, I've made it successfully with a stick blender before. You can do it!


-t - Mar 31, 2021 4:26:13 pm PDT #5068 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You can get good results making mayo with a stick blender and not being super careful with the traditionally fiddly bits - you don't necessarily have dribble in a thin stream of oil while you blend, , for example, but can basically put everything in a jar and blend it up and still get mayonnaise. Google "easy homemade mayo" and enjoy!