It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Consuela - Mar 10, 2021 6:45:41 pm PST #4389 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I had a cut-rate roomba for a while and it just didn't work that well. I have a small house with a lot of rugs to protect the HW floors, and a low sofa, and it just always got stuck in a corner, or fell off the step to the front porch, or got hung up on the corner of the rug. Just didn't work very well. I gave it to my niece and she has a bigger place with more open rooms, and it works well there.


Calli - Mar 11, 2021 3:54:24 am PST #4390 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I hope you feel better today, Hil.

I had a low end Roomba. It was nice, and while the cat didn’t love it, he was content to jump up on furniture and watch it from above. However, it could not cope with one cat’s fur. I’m sure it couldn’t deal with two. I got a Dyson that was specifically for pet households (on sale) , and that’s been great.


-t - Mar 11, 2021 10:22:32 am PST #4391 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{Hil}}} This is beside the point but I think it's awful that you (the general you, meaning all of us, but also specifically you) have to jump through hoops to take a sick day when you are by definition not up to working so all those hoops are even harder

It has taken a week for me to find out that Verizon can't do one damn thing for my non-working phone except suggest that I pay off the balance I owe on it and upgrade. So that's swell. Not sure what I'm going to do about getting a new phone just yet but I don't think I will buy it through Verizon


JenP - Mar 11, 2021 11:02:21 am PST #4392 of 30000

Well, there's good news, which is, my first vax dose is scheduled for March 20th.

Then there's devastating news in that one of my closest friends lost her brother to a heart attack three days ago. He was maybe 56, father of two grown but still twenties kids. My friend had to deliver the news to her/their parents and their other sister. I cannot imagine any of this. Or, I don't want to. We, her friends, are circling the wagons, of course, but there's no actual defense against this kind of grief.

This is the family that took us all in as new college kids and have welcomed us every day since. Have spent countless occasions with them - weddings, holidays, vacations - and her brother was just a delightful human. Heartbroken for them.

ETA: I'm good. I just wanted to share it here, where it's safe.


lisah - Mar 11, 2021 11:03:50 am PST #4393 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Oh, Jen, that's so sad


lisah - Mar 11, 2021 11:04:16 am PST #4394 of 30000
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Laura - Mar 11, 2021 11:44:50 am PST #4395 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

That is rough, Jen. I'm glad she has you.

My back door neighbors ripped out a the fence long line of palm trees a while back, which had provided complete privacy for my back yard. Their trees, the previous owner had planted them. It was horrifying. First, they were beautiful. Second, the back of their house is not. Ugh. Well, DH found a nursery which has like 12' or taller trees to put in a new hedge. Ha! Easier said than done. He and one of my basketball sons, who benches over 300 #s went this morning and picked up 6 of them since that was all they could fit in the trailer. Got home and it took them over 3 hours to just get them off the trailer. Like wow super heavy. They just went to get another load, but won't try and offload them until they have another couple men to help. Clearly it will take some serious muscle to actually get them planted. Yes, this is my husband who was supposed to have hernia surgery a couple years ago but still hasn't because he is too heavy and the surgeon won't do it. A little no emergency surgery~ma might be in order. BUT I will be able to skinny dip again without concern over upsetting anyone. Of course, my first plan was for us to sunbathe nude daily until the neighbors put the trees back, but it seems unlikely that the plan would work.


-t - Mar 11, 2021 12:24:45 pm PST #4396 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm so sorry, Jen. That's terrible.


Topic!Cindy - Mar 11, 2021 1:59:08 pm PST #4397 of 30000
What is even happening?

Jen, that's awful. My condolences.

I'm back from my first of two Moderna shots. The second is scheduled for April 8th. Now just my daughter and older son need their vaccines. As healthy 20-somethings, they expect they'll have to wait.


brenda m - Mar 11, 2021 2:12:55 pm PST #4398 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Cindy, you're my vaccine twin! Both doses.