Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?

Zoe ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Mar 04, 2021 2:16:16 pm PST #4170 of 30000

Wait I know where megan walker went to college, I thought. Jen did you go there too? Maybe I’m remembering wrong.

Congratulations Brenda!! That’s awesome!

I am trying to take over two projects and the woman is trying to shove all her knowledge into my brain and it is making me shut down and want a nap


Trudy Booth - Mar 04, 2021 2:43:39 pm PST #4171 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I was in NY and Kate P was in New England when I became good friends with a good meatspace friend of her's in NJ.


NoiseDesign - Mar 04, 2021 3:01:31 pm PST #4172 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

we both work in theatre, and it is a small world.

Theatre is always ready to remind us of just how small the world can be. It's rare that I want into a theatre at this point and don't find someone I know in some fashion.


Calli - Mar 04, 2021 3:30:12 pm PST #4173 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations, Brenda!


brenda m - Mar 04, 2021 3:30:40 pm PST #4174 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

smonster and I have a friend in common from the outside world, and someone from meara's old drag king circles was a friend of my brother, and the daughter of the minister of our church growing up. Small worlds!


Laura - Mar 04, 2021 3:37:06 pm PST #4175 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Woo Hoo Brenda! Nice to get recognition.

Got my 2nd Covid shot. All the vaccination spots were manned by Firefighters today. Mine was super cute too. Last time it was a bunch of nurses. It is a county site so they must alternate different crews. Anyway, sore arm, but relieved to have that part behind me. I know it isn't time yet, but I am so ready to go back to being my huggy self. Oh well. Soon.


meara - Mar 04, 2021 3:41:59 pm PST #4176 of 30000

Brenda, who was that? I don’t even remember!

I still find it amusing smonster and I attended the same party before we knew each other, even though we never lived in the same state


Sheryl - Mar 04, 2021 3:42:21 pm PST #4177 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry, msbelle.

Congrats, Brenda!


brenda m - Mar 04, 2021 3:45:06 pm PST #4178 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Phew, you guys, it's been a day.

So my manager S - who I talked to like two, three times a year the past couple of years - was apparently failing on the job for a while. Just before xmas someone called his manager J to say it seemed like he was struggling on a project. When the manager reached out to him he basically said "you should probably go ahead and fire me now". And then a lot started coming out about how very much he was just not doing.

Some backstory: Steve was the national lead for our proposal teams. We both used to lead a regional team and I'm fairly sure I was maneuvered out of the way when they decided to create the national leadership role several years ago. (It took me a loong time to get over my anger about the white male mediocrity of it all, and honestly I was pretty checked out for a while myself.)

This time, it was a competitive process with both internal and external candidates, and it feels pretty good to come out on top. It's different leadership too, and an expanded role. Now I gotta really step up my game. (Not least because I'll have three direct reports who also applied for the position. Eep)


brenda m - Mar 04, 2021 3:45:53 pm PST #4179 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

[Edited to remove what I think is a deadname.] Their drag name was Pat Riarch, based in North Carolina. Now goes by Neeve Neevel, and I'm not sure about pronouns.