Ugh. Shut up, guy on call!
Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.
River ,'Objects In Space'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
-t - Feb 10, 2021 4:26:25 pm PST #3354 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Allyson - Feb 10, 2021 4:26:31 pm PST #3355 of 30000
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
I have no words! I was hoping you all would have words.
A reporter from New York Mag called me yesterday to talk about Joss' legacy, and then this hit. So I was already in a murky place wondering what the hell I had done with such a large chunk of my life.
Calli - Feb 10, 2021 4:27:00 pm PST #3356 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I mean, is it wrong to threaten brick throwing aloud?
Not wrong, but it would hurt me more than him, so probably not effective.
And, 20+ minutes later, we're done.
JenP - Feb 10, 2021 4:28:48 pm PST #3357 of 30000
Not wrong, but it would hurt me more than him, so probably not effective.
Wise.
JZ - Feb 10, 2021 4:29:14 pm PST #3358 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I have no words! I was hoping you all would have words.
There are a few in the Buffy & Angel thread, but not a lot. Mostly, MT's very vague words are deeply unsettling, and we're all noticing that none of the men have spoken up yet at all.
Dana - Feb 10, 2021 4:33:36 pm PST #3359 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
The only words I really have are that I'm glad my participation in online fandom has given me the tools to reclaim media from creators who don't deserve them. Buffy is mine now, just like Harry Potter is mine.
-t - Feb 10, 2021 4:34:57 pm PST #3360 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
That's a sweet conversation, JenP
-t - Feb 10, 2021 4:36:19 pm PST #3361 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
That is something to hold onto for sure, Dana.
I haven't read through all the links yet and I'm already just sick about it.
Beverly - Feb 10, 2021 4:39:04 pm PST #3362 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
Allyson! Welcome home!
Please don't feel this is aimed at you because it isn't. But it's a thing that's been noticeable to me. I mean, I'm glad we're here, but why is it always tragedy or disaster (or impending tragedy or disaster) that brings us back here, where safety is?
Can't...we be here when everything is nice, too? I mean, shouldn't we be? Or not? Theories, anybody?
ETA: I did not see the precipitating circumstances before I posted. I think Dana expressed my feelings about things I have been fannish about, and will, in some measure continue to hold fondly. The love and investment exists aside from the ruination that came later, at least for me.
-t - Feb 10, 2021 4:59:00 pm PST #3363 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
We're always here, Beverly. Just who makes up the we that is here changes some.