You guys, throw out your irons and get a clothes steamer: [link] Total game changer.

I won't buy shirts or pants with a pocket flap for just that reason It's a pain and for pants in particular it never truly stays flat.

I won't buy shirts or pants with a pocket flap for just that reason

Now you tell me! Because I love this shirt, so now I can't give it up.

That steamer is tempting. I added it to my list.

That steamer is tempting. I added it to my list.

It's so freaking easy. You hang your shirt up (like from the shower curtain rod, or wherever), hold the steamer up to it, and the wrinkles just fall out. Spooky magic.

Trying to hold off a panic attack/meltdown. Had a meeting with big boss and co-worker about work loads, ostensibly since my boss, the deputy to big boss has left.

There is no rush to replaced my boss. Big Boss does not seem to hear me when I say that my workload did not come from boss, but from COVID. Now sure I am not being utilized to my full potential, neither am I 100% busy. But this convo felt very much like, since you don't have a boss to support, your position is probably not full time anymore and what can we do about that?

Like fuckin YIKES!

Also co-worker would be less overwhelmed if she had any process documents in place about what she does. None. It is a whole thing to get trained on how to do anything.

Oh dear, msbelle. Hope that works out ok!

Boss that is gone is the one that was so squirrelly about calendar and timesheeet and communication i general?

I got as far as opening up my appraisal template to think about maybe starting that and it just filled me with despair. Maybe if I can find last year's appraisal to work from that would help. Although meanwhile I have normal Monday work stuff to do...

Hil, I'm sorry about your aunt. I hope today is a better day for her. How are you feeling?

Oh, msbelle, that does sound unfun. I, too, have done the "person I now report to literally has no idea of my job" and it is not a comfortable place. I wish you useful communication.

I couldn't begin to tell you the last time I ironed. Usually, I'm like Laura, I remove it from the dryer promptly and that's good enough. However, right now I have a Ravenclaw shirt a friend made for me (with her Cricut) and some of the letters are coming a bit loose. I need to pull out the iron and board to give them a good pressing (melting?) before I wash and (especially) dry it. 'Fraid the steamer won't help in that case.

-t, I can't tell you how much help Atropa's summary was when I was doing my self-appraisal earlier this year. I still had to do the individual sections, but then I put her words (slightly tailored to my specific situation) in the comments and I felt much better - like I had said what I was thinking, but in a way that wouldn't get me fired.