Xander: Hey, Red. What you got in the basket, little girl? Buffy: Weapons.

Xander/Buffy ,'Help'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Feb 08, 2021 7:37:30 am PST #3264 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

This morning I turned off the wakeup alarms on my phone for the rest of the week, since I'm staycationing. Long list of things that I need to get done, like get my car fixed and inspected, and so on. sigh.

But first I have to go out and shovel, and clear the car. I've made it to the 'mostly dressed' phase, including thermal leggings under my jeans.


Steph L. - Feb 08, 2021 7:51:02 am PST #3265 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

You guys, throw out your irons and get a clothes steamer: [link] Total game changer.


brenda m - Feb 08, 2021 8:49:13 am PST #3266 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I won't buy shirts or pants with a pocket flap for just that reason It's a pain and for pants in particular it never truly stays flat.


JenP - Feb 08, 2021 9:18:21 am PST #3267 of 30000

I won't buy shirts or pants with a pocket flap for just that reason

Now you tell me! Because I love this shirt, so now I can't give it up.

That steamer is tempting. I added it to my list.


Steph L. - Feb 08, 2021 9:33:39 am PST #3268 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

That steamer is tempting. I added it to my list.

It's so freaking easy. You hang your shirt up (like from the shower curtain rod, or wherever), hold the steamer up to it, and the wrinkles just fall out. Spooky magic.


msbelle - Feb 08, 2021 10:34:35 am PST #3269 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Trying to hold off a panic attack/meltdown. Had a meeting with big boss and co-worker about work loads, ostensibly since my boss, the deputy to big boss has left.

There is no rush to replaced my boss. Big Boss does not seem to hear me when I say that my workload did not come from boss, but from COVID. Now sure I am not being utilized to my full potential, neither am I 100% busy. But this convo felt very much like, since you don't have a boss to support, your position is probably not full time anymore and what can we do about that?

Like fuckin YIKES!

Also co-worker would be less overwhelmed if she had any process documents in place about what she does. None. It is a whole thing to get trained on how to do anything.


-t - Feb 08, 2021 10:41:48 am PST #3270 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh dear, msbelle. Hope that works out ok!


-t - Feb 08, 2021 10:42:39 am PST #3271 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Boss that is gone is the one that was so squirrelly about calendar and timesheeet and communication i general?


-t - Feb 08, 2021 10:45:50 am PST #3272 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I got as far as opening up my appraisal template to think about maybe starting that and it just filled me with despair. Maybe if I can find last year's appraisal to work from that would help. Although meanwhile I have normal Monday work stuff to do...


EpicTangent - Feb 08, 2021 10:53:00 am PST #3273 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Hil, I'm sorry about your aunt. I hope today is a better day for her. How are you feeling?

Oh, msbelle, that does sound unfun. I, too, have done the "person I now report to literally has no idea of my job" and it is not a comfortable place. I wish you useful communication.

I couldn't begin to tell you the last time I ironed. Usually, I'm like Laura, I remove it from the dryer promptly and that's good enough. However, right now I have a Ravenclaw shirt a friend made for me (with her Cricut) and some of the letters are coming a bit loose. I need to pull out the iron and board to give them a good pressing (melting?) before I wash and (especially) dry it. 'Fraid the steamer won't help in that case.