Illyria: We cling to what is gone. Is there anything in this life but grief? Wesley: There's love. There's hope...for some. There's hope that you'll find something worthy...that your life will lead you to some joy...that after everything...you can still be surprised. Illyria: Is that enough? Is that enough to live on?

'Shells'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JZ - Nov 25, 2020 8:35:42 am PST #318 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Awww, thanks for the kind words! It just entranced me how much all these doctors and scientists were entranced by it. I love that we are an animal that tells itself stories and comes to understand itself through the stories it tells.

For people with kitties, I once saw a book by a vet called "All My Patients Are Under The Bed".

I found an animal behavior consultant service in Reno for my mom and her cat; they've started doing all their consults via Zoom, and they noted on the info page that for cats their consults are more productive than ever, because back when they did home visits most of the time their clients would hide until they went away so they never got to see the behavior they were consulting on. Now, all the cats are totally used to their humans talking to the shiny pictures in their phones or laptops, so the cats just carry on as usual and the behaviorist gets to see the bad behavior in real time.


JZ - Nov 25, 2020 8:38:09 am PST #319 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Because it deserves a separate post: msbelle, I am so sorry. Even when it's not a surprise, it's always sudden. And our most beloved teachers hold such a particular place in our hearts and our lives and who we become in all the years after.


Dana - Nov 25, 2020 9:06:57 am PST #320 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

No motivation today. None. Only motivation to eat cereal.


Steph L. - Nov 25, 2020 9:32:34 am PST #321 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Fuck. Tim and his brothers got a message from their dad's assisted living community that their dad was exposed to someone with Covid. They didn't say who, so it could have been one of the people who drops off the meals (which is a very short amount of interaction time), but it could have been one of the staff that has longer visits (health checks and whatnot). And their dad is very resistant to wearing a mask (when he does wear one, he keeps pulling it under his nose), and I don't know much it's enforced at his facility. (I assume the rules are to strictly enforce mask wearing, but rules tend to fall apart in practice.)

He got a Covid test right away, so now we just have to wait for the results. Although depending on when he was exposed, he'll probably need to get another test in a week or two as well.

Fingers are crossed. He's physically pretty healthy for a man his age (no heart disease, no high blood pressure, no cancer, no lung disease, etc.), but he is 82, which is automatically high risk.


msbelle - Nov 25, 2020 9:32:45 am PST #322 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Hey guess who never cancelled homeowners insurance on the house she sold?

This girl!!

Luckily my insurance is refunding the overpayment!!! $1530.54!


Steph L. - Nov 25, 2020 9:33:18 am PST #323 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Luckily my insurance is refunding the overpayment!!! $1530.54!

Right on!


msbelle - Nov 25, 2020 9:35:10 am PST #324 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh no Steph. It is a pain waiting. We get alerts from my parents’ retirement community every time they have a case or results from their standard testing.


Laura - Nov 25, 2020 9:35:26 am PST #325 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Nice refund!

Test~ma for Tim's dad.


Steph L. - Nov 25, 2020 9:37:27 am PST #326 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

We get alerts from my parents’ retirement community every time they have a case

Yeah, Tim's dad's facility does send emails whenever there are any positive cases, even if it's not a resident, which I appreciate.


Dana - Nov 25, 2020 9:40:33 am PST #327 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

We missed canceling our flood insurance on the previous house, but thankfully also got a refund.

Fingers crossed for your FIL, Steph.