Man, you just get darker and darker, and the weird thing is, your aura? Beige.

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Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Feb 17, 2024 5:05:08 am PST #28717 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Many years ago I lived in an apartment complex on the first floor and woke to the sounds of firemen talking outside my window that they were going to have to break in. Someone in the building had reported smelling gas and they had knocked on all the doors. I had managed to sleep through that. Neighbors had apparently told them I was in there. When I heard them I got up and let them in. They never found any issue, but I told them I was cool with them having to break in if they thought I was in trouble. (and apologized for sleeping with earplugs)


Laura - Feb 17, 2024 10:27:03 am PST #28718 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

In me news, I went to my first PT session yesterday, which was good, and felt better afterward. Then this afternoon I went downstairs to our gym and did all my homework, plus some extra on the arms.


Beverly - Feb 18, 2024 11:17:30 am PST #28719 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Yay for good PT, Laura. Also, yay for getting back into your house, Sheryl.

Good thoughts for Shrift and Teppy and their dads.

They are...supposedly...releasing DH from the hospital today. He's on a four-week IV ABX before they can do the surgery they need to do, so we'll be doing stop-and-go infusions daily at the hospital. But he'll be out of durance vile while we wait for the surgery date. Thanks so much for all the ~ma. I now release it to those who need it more.


P.M. Marc - Feb 18, 2024 1:17:31 pm PST #28720 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

They are...supposedly...releasing DH from the hospital today. He's on a four-week IV ABX before they can do the surgery they need to do, so we'll be doing stop-and-go infusions daily at the hospital. But he'll be out of durance vile while we wait for the surgery date. Thanks so much for all the ~ma. I now release it to those who need it more.

Give B my love. Miss you two. Fingers crossed for him still.


Beverly - Feb 18, 2024 4:03:17 pm PST #28721 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

We miss you too, Plei.

He's home. He's a little dazed, wandering around touching things. "I miss the hospital noises." He's napping. It's beyond wonderful to have him home, see him better, and know there's an endpoint to this, and a positive resolution Thanks everybody for the good thoughts. Most appreciated. And now I nap, too.


Calli - Feb 18, 2024 4:30:13 pm PST #28722 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad he’s home, Beverly.

I have a mammogram tomorrow morning. They generally aren’t painful for me. But going in, I always wonder if this is the one that will change my life—in a bad way. Still, better to find things than not, if things are to be found.


dcp - Feb 18, 2024 5:55:48 pm PST #28723 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

But going in, I always wonder if this is the one that will change my life—in a bad way.

The word I have learned for this is: "scanxiety."


Susan W. - Feb 18, 2024 8:06:36 pm PST #28724 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

The word I have learned for this is: "scanxiety."

That is a perfect word, and I feel it at every mammogram, every colonoscopy (because of family history I've been having them every 3 years or so since my mid-30s), and even a little bit with every year's bloodwork at my annual physical.


Calli - Feb 19, 2024 3:47:36 am PST #28725 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Scanxiety sound accurate.


Laura - Feb 19, 2024 4:33:13 am PST #28726 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Good Monday! Why do I say it is so good? It is Beverly's birthday! I'm relieved that you have your DH home with you. May you have a relaxed and lovely day and may the year to come bring an abundance of health and happiness to your lives.