Two steaming cups of chocolate goodness. Courtesy of whomever I swiped it from out of the cupboard.

Ben ,'The Killer In Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Jan 24, 2024 11:08:03 am PST #28217 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

No kidding!


-t - Jan 24, 2024 1:17:02 pm PST #28218 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yikes! Uncool, IRS.


DavidS - Jan 24, 2024 3:49:10 pm PST #28219 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I checked with Sophia and she replied: "I am Ok but super overwhelmed with work and feeling quiet and guilty for disappearing."

I assured her there's nothing to feel guilty about and that we just missed her and were concerned.


Dana - Jan 24, 2024 3:51:34 pm PST #28220 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Thanks, David. I'm glad she's okay.


-t - Jan 24, 2024 4:13:30 pm PST #28221 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Thanks, Hec


smonster - Jan 24, 2024 4:25:20 pm PST #28222 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh dude, super yikes.

Laura, easy hip-fix~ma.

I said it on fb but always bears saying twice - I’m so sorry about Mozzie, Brenda. Wish I’d gotten to meet him.

One of the brutiful memories of my mom’s decline was spooning her, and another was sitting behind her to keep her upright. And one of my weird regrets is that I made my sister stop snuggling me when I hit puberty, because of all the societal bs. I’m sure she didn’t understand (I didn’t really either) and just felt rejected.

Re: France and old medical cures - fun fact! When I studied abroad in Montpellier I lived down the block from one of the oldest medical schools in Europe, and the associated medicinal garden. Rabelais went there; at the time it was a six week course.

Re: me almost getting fired for a bad mood - I will allow that when one of the women in my family is angry or frustrated, it does create a palpable drop in air pressure. But there was 100% sexism involved (my male boss can be as grumpy as he wants to the extent that it’s a nickname for him) and the reason I didn’t talk to anyone about my bad mood is that I was being thrown under the bus (again) for something that in no way was only my responsibility.

Also, if your boss interrupts you a bazillion times a day, which you have talked to her about specifically as being not great for you, it’s apparently the height of disrespect to ask if you can finish your sentence. I really don’t even think I was a smartass in how I said it.

I’m going to try and run numbers tonight and see if I have enough to make it through at least mid-March, because 1) I know in my bones that they have not made allowances in the schedule for the shit show that is Mardi Gras (but V will still get to ride in her two parades) and 2) I cannot look for a job while I have this job, because it robs me of all my energy and steals a good chunk of my weekend due to fatigue and pain. And 3) my coworker is leaving, and our lunchtime bitch sessions are one of the only things getting me through each day.

Which means if I’m going to give a week’s notice I need to do it tomorrow.

The irony or whatever of me being in the same position as R last summer (quit or be fired) and not having a financial cash cushion because I supported them… is not lost on me.


smonster - Jan 24, 2024 4:26:23 pm PST #28223 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Xpost with David - Good to know Sophia is okay.


Calli - Jan 24, 2024 5:18:50 pm PST #28224 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m sorry about Mozzie.

But I’m glad it wasn’t anything worse than a migraine, Steph, much as those suck. I burst a blood vessel in my eye due to the overwhelming noise at a conference last summer. It was very dramatic.

I’m sorry about the work stuff, smonster. I hope you find something better soon.

I finally went in for a check up, and to meet my new doctor, last week, and then the blood work came back. It was mostly good, except the sugars are getting a tad high. Not quite prediabetic, but flirting with it. So I’m back to low carbing again. I did it about 20 years ago and it went fairly well. I’d forgotten about the energy boost, though. Whee!


Steph L. - Jan 24, 2024 5:30:30 pm PST #28225 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I burst a blood vessel in my eye due to the overwhelming noise at a conference last summer. It was very dramatic.

It looks so much worse today. Why couldn't this have happened around Halloween? I would look spooky and seasonally appropriate!

It was mostly good, except the sugars are getting a tad high. Not quite prediabetic, but flirting with it.

I was honestly surprised that my nonfasting glucose yesterday was only 100. Surprised, as in, when I read it I gasped a little, like the melodramatic critter I am.

I’d forgotten about the energy boost, though. Whee!

Ooooh, the low-carb rush! That's a nice bonus.


-t - Jan 24, 2024 5:56:14 pm PST #28226 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That all sounds deeply unpleasant, smonster. I’m sorry.

Assorted healthful wishes on all y’all’s heads