You'll fight, and you'll shag, and you'll hate each other till it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


NoiseDesign - Jan 02, 2024 2:49:23 pm PST #27796 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Just an update since Pix has not been on since earlier today. Her dad got moved back to the hospital. He's in rough shape, and she just got the news that he's septic. They are working on that now on top of other other issues. I'm in touch with her from here, and am getting ready to jump on the next flight if that's needed.


Steph L. - Jan 02, 2024 3:06:43 pm PST #27797 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Thanks for updating us, Drew. I'm keeping Pix's dad (and Pix, of course!) in my thoughts.


-t - Jan 02, 2024 3:11:21 pm PST #27798 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, man. Thanks for the update, Noise. Keeping y'all in my thoughts.

Glad to hear at least some food was good to go, Dana! WTH, toast, though?I rely on toast in those situations.

Yay for fairy light joy, Calli!

We were reminded by our managing director this morning (via email, he didn't come around and talk to me personally) that the new in-the-office-3-days-in-a-row schedule starts now. I am seeking the silver lining by leaving my laptop in the office and my leftovers in the fridge. Some of my co-workers are getting kinda messed up by the switch, though.


smonster - Jan 02, 2024 5:36:51 pm PST #27799 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thanks for the update, ND. Thinking of you both so much right now.

Fairy lights are pretty amazing, really. It’s remarkable how such a tiny simple thing can really help in the dark.

Dana, I hope you start feeling better soon! Glad you were able to keep something down.


Consuela - Jan 02, 2024 6:23:43 pm PST #27800 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I'm thinking of you, Pix, and your dad. {{hugs}}


Kate P. - Jan 02, 2024 6:41:40 pm PST #27801 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

So many good thoughts to you and your dad, Pix. This is so hard.


Jesse - Jan 02, 2024 7:03:19 pm PST #27802 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hang in there, Pix (and ND!). This is so hard.

Boy, I did not expect, when posting about being sick on FB, that I would get an anti-Covid-testing comment from a dude I knew in high school. What a fucking wanker. I mean, he was a fucking wanker in high school too, so that part isn't too surprising.

Yeah, what the actual fuck. And I am sorry you are not better yet!

So there's this person I don't like, and I want to run a smear campaign against them. Does anyone know who at the NYT I should contact to get the ball rolling?

It's really going to help if the person is a minority of any kind...


DavidS - Jan 02, 2024 7:58:09 pm PST #27803 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So now I have some hyacinth forcing jars with fairy lights glowing in them, to make up for the lack of Christmas tree lights in the living room. It’s bringing me joy far beyond what I expected.

I am pro-little lights every and anywhere as joy-making.

Poor Pix! That's really scary and stressful. Hoping for best outcomes.


Laura - Jan 03, 2024 4:33:38 am PST #27804 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Today is a happy birthday to shrift day! I hope there is much slounging and treats this day. May you find an abundance of joy in the year to come.


lisah - Jan 03, 2024 7:12:44 am PST #27805 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Shrift!