Dawn: I thought you were adequate. Giles: And the accolades keep pouring in. I'd best take my leave before my head swells any larger. Good night.

'First Date'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


smonster - Dec 29, 2023 3:45:31 pm PST #27728 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sending you lots of love, Pix. You came to the absolute right place for no filter needed.


Sheryl - Dec 29, 2023 3:54:43 pm PST #27729 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I’m so sorry, lisah.

{{{Pix}}}


lisah - Dec 29, 2023 3:58:22 pm PST #27730 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I’ll be keeping your Dad in my thoughts, Pix.

And thank you all for your kind words about Magellan. I miss him so much and can’t believe he’s gone.


Jesse - Dec 29, 2023 4:14:58 pm PST #27731 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hang in there, Pix. This is so hard to think about, but if he's going to have to live with more support soon, you might think about not trying to get him back home. It wasn't a medical crisis, but a crisis situation that landed him in the hospital is how we got my father into the nursing home. Both because it made the transition easier ("easier") on him, but also because it's easier to get a slot when you are coming from the hospital vs. from home.


JenP - Dec 29, 2023 4:15:32 pm PST #27732 of 30000

Sending you all good vibes for your dad, Pix.

I'm so sorry, lisah.


Steph L. - Dec 29, 2023 4:31:42 pm PST #27733 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

It wasn't a medical crisis, but a crisis situation that landed him in the hospital is how we got my father into the nursing home. Both because it made the transition easier ("easier") on him, but also because it's easier to get a slot when you are coming from the hospital vs. from home.

This was true with Tim's dad, too.


Matt the Bruins fan - Dec 29, 2023 5:18:29 pm PST #27734 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I'm so sorry about Magellan, lisah.

Fingers crossed for your dad, Pix.

The Year of Cancer had to get one last kick in at my family on its way out the door—my Mom's first post-surgery check up showed that hers has returned for round three. Merry Fucking Christmas. Though at least it's still Stage 1 and theoretically still non-invasive. She's having her next surgery in 10 days, and I assume they'll follow up with some sort of chemo (though her doctor refuses to use that word). Any health~ma for her would be greatly appreciated.


JenP - Dec 29, 2023 5:28:41 pm PST #27735 of 30000

Oh, Matt. All the health-ma her way for smooth surgery and recovery.


Pix - Dec 29, 2023 5:45:58 pm PST #27736 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Hang in there, Pix. This is so hard to think about, but if he's going to have to live with more support soon, you might think about not trying to get him back home. It wasn't a medical crisis, but a crisis situation that landed him in the hospital is how we got my father into the nursing home. Both because it made the transition easier ("easier") on him, but also because it's easier to get a slot when you are coming from the hospital vs. from home.

Yeah, the issues with this are his dog and the financial impact. It's pretty complex. If we move him now, it's a much harder path on a lot of levels.

Matt, I'm so sorry to hear that. Dammit.


Laura - Dec 29, 2023 6:16:22 pm PST #27737 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, Matt. It sounds like it was detected early. Much ~ma for uneventful surgery and recovery.