Zoe: Is there any way I'm gonna get out of this with honor and dignity? Wash: You're pretty much down to ritual suicide, lambie-toes.

'War Stories'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Dec 24, 2023 2:29:18 pm PST #27605 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh, Susan! That is way too much Christmas drama. I hope her surgery and recovery go well.


meara - Dec 24, 2023 3:30:32 pm PST #27606 of 30000

Oh no Susan! But I also had surgery at Harborview and while I did eventually have some of it removed, it wasn’t the surgeons fault, he did a good job. When I asked my doctor friends they were all like “yeah, you won’t get your hand held but they’ll do a good job” when I asked where to go.

Oh, I 100% sure she just didn't know/forgot that the war started on the last day of the holidays and was just excited about Christmas.

Oh wow. That is quite a misstep. Yikes. I hope you’re continuing to do as well as you can.

Smonster I hope you don’t get Covid. But I do hope we have a golden girls situation. This house is decently big so we’ve all had our own spaces to retreat to when needed? But I would also be very down for tiny houses or apartments near. Proximity is so nice. As is cooking for a group. So much better than cooking for one and I only have to do it once a week or so?! Yes.

My dad has a cold (maybe covid?) which is scary. He’s not healthy and this could absolutely do him in. Or not. But we are praying for “not” because we still don’t have mom’s estate settled and if he dies it’ll be a logistical nightmare. Please think good thoughts.


smonster - Dec 24, 2023 4:10:47 pm PST #27607 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh jeez, meara. Fingers crossed it’s just a cold.

I think I would prefer to be in a big house, with a library full of reading books and at least two one tv room.


sj - Dec 24, 2023 4:19:40 pm PST #27608 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I could deal with a golden girls scenario even as an introvert as long as I had a quiet room of my own when I needed it.


Susan W. - Dec 24, 2023 4:20:32 pm PST #27609 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

When I asked my doctor friends they were all like “yeah, you won’t get your hand held but they’ll do a good job” when I asked where to go.

Yeah, Harborview provides excellent care. I was just surprised they couldn't handle it at Northwest (though I think it was an issue of capacity rather than capability), and it's a pain to get there and park.


lisah - Dec 24, 2023 4:26:53 pm PST #27610 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Oh Susan that sounds terrifying! Glad your friend had a good support system to help her recover.

sj, hostessing can be so stressful even if you’re just hosting loved ones. Hope you can give yourself some grace and space to enjoy the holidays.


brenda m - Dec 24, 2023 4:51:25 pm PST #27611 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I am so in for a GG scenario.


Karl - Dec 24, 2023 6:47:00 pm PST #27612 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Hugs, supportive fist-bumps, and protective bubble-wrap for everybody, as appropriate and desired.

Shir, lovely to see your posts; seeing your "I love you" always makes me mist up, but in an incredibly good way. My usual greeting specifically for Christmas is usually, "Peace on Earth, goodwill to folks," but that sticks in my throat this year even more than it did last year. So much love to you and Nilly and your family and friends.

I am going across to the East Bay tomorrow to have Xmas dinner with some old friends. This is my first real social outing since BayCon in July, and I'm having some anxiety about it. I've always been an introvert, but ... yeah, the past four years have definitely taken a toll.


Steph L. - Dec 24, 2023 8:14:58 pm PST #27613 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Susan, yikes! It’s good to hear your friend will get good medical care, though.

Something at brunch today gave me food poisoning, but not bad enough that I had to skip Christmas Eve dinner at my mom’s. (I did not eat anything at Mom’s; just drank sparkling water for 6 hours.) My tummy had better be back to normal tomorrow.

Man, the one thing I can always count on at my mom’s is amazing fucking wine and lots of great cheese. I had my gluttony planned for the day! And then my plans were foiled. Boo hoo.

KITT the new car drives like a dream. It’s delightful.


quester - Dec 24, 2023 8:16:17 pm PST #27614 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Happy Holidays, Buffistas.

GG plan should include Golden Guys. I'm hear for the "sometimes I want to be alone" and "sometimes I crave company".

Shir and Nilly, always thinking about you! thank you for checking in.

Healing~ma for that need it.