That's disturbing. You're emotionally scarred and will end up badly.

Anya ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Dec 24, 2023 4:19:40 pm PST #27608 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I could deal with a golden girls scenario even as an introvert as long as I had a quiet room of my own when I needed it.


Susan W. - Dec 24, 2023 4:20:32 pm PST #27609 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

When I asked my doctor friends they were all like “yeah, you won’t get your hand held but they’ll do a good job” when I asked where to go.

Yeah, Harborview provides excellent care. I was just surprised they couldn't handle it at Northwest (though I think it was an issue of capacity rather than capability), and it's a pain to get there and park.


lisah - Dec 24, 2023 4:26:53 pm PST #27610 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Oh Susan that sounds terrifying! Glad your friend had a good support system to help her recover.

sj, hostessing can be so stressful even if you’re just hosting loved ones. Hope you can give yourself some grace and space to enjoy the holidays.


brenda m - Dec 24, 2023 4:51:25 pm PST #27611 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I am so in for a GG scenario.


Karl - Dec 24, 2023 6:47:00 pm PST #27612 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Hugs, supportive fist-bumps, and protective bubble-wrap for everybody, as appropriate and desired.

Shir, lovely to see your posts; seeing your "I love you" always makes me mist up, but in an incredibly good way. My usual greeting specifically for Christmas is usually, "Peace on Earth, goodwill to folks," but that sticks in my throat this year even more than it did last year. So much love to you and Nilly and your family and friends.

I am going across to the East Bay tomorrow to have Xmas dinner with some old friends. This is my first real social outing since BayCon in July, and I'm having some anxiety about it. I've always been an introvert, but ... yeah, the past four years have definitely taken a toll.


Steph L. - Dec 24, 2023 8:14:58 pm PST #27613 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Susan, yikes! It’s good to hear your friend will get good medical care, though.

Something at brunch today gave me food poisoning, but not bad enough that I had to skip Christmas Eve dinner at my mom’s. (I did not eat anything at Mom’s; just drank sparkling water for 6 hours.) My tummy had better be back to normal tomorrow.

Man, the one thing I can always count on at my mom’s is amazing fucking wine and lots of great cheese. I had my gluttony planned for the day! And then my plans were foiled. Boo hoo.

KITT the new car drives like a dream. It’s delightful.


quester - Dec 24, 2023 8:16:17 pm PST #27614 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Happy Holidays, Buffistas.

GG plan should include Golden Guys. I'm hear for the "sometimes I want to be alone" and "sometimes I crave company".

Shir and Nilly, always thinking about you! thank you for checking in.

Healing~ma for that need it.


meara - Dec 24, 2023 9:14:16 pm PST #27615 of 30000

Well the perils of a golden girls situation is you might have a night like tonight where we all suggested Christmas movies, voted on them, turned the first one off an hour in for being depressing, turned the second one off ten minutes in for being awful, and then everyone either wandered off or fell asleep when we picked a third one…


Laura - Dec 25, 2023 5:35:58 am PST #27616 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm absolutely down for golden girls and guys.

I need to get more social with my condo neighbors. This year I hope to have a regular time I go to the gym and pool to connect with the same people regularly. Also, I want to start a book club. There is a condo bulletin board for organizing such things. When we do have social gatherings here I always enjoy the neighbors, and when we share the public areas everyone is always nice. It is a wide variety of ages and nationalities. 2024 goals - be more social and embrace my inner extrovert.

Merry Christmas and/or magnificent Monday to all!


Laura - Dec 25, 2023 5:42:38 am PST #27617 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Well the perils of a golden girls situation is you might have a night like tonight where we all suggested Christmas movies, voted on them, turned the first one off an hour in for being depressing, turned the second one off ten minutes in for being awful, and then everyone either wandered off or fell asleep when we picked a third one…

This was us last night! We picked Netflix movies that were supposedly most liked and so forth. The first one was just bleak and awful and bad. The second one was considerably better, because song and dance, but is never going to be a classic. I thought we would try something new, but I think we may have to go back to Miracle on 34th Street and A Christmas Carol next year! Maybe White Christmas too. Something to be said for the classics.